On 7/3/2017 at 2:53 PM, Pussycat Catnap said:
My experience everytime I went to an 'interracial' sim in SL.
Being mixed, before I came to SL, the word 'interracial' to me just meant myself and those like me...
I had no idea it was a kind of racist porn involving white women pretending to be raped by black men...
Now that I see that form of porn all over SL... it's quite disturbing.
And as someone on a black avatar, who is also almost always nude in SL... I worry about being wrapped up in seen as a part of it... I suspect this is played a part in turning me 'off' of the 'SL sex' scene. One of several reasons...
The people in such venues also use a kind of 'fake ebonics / jive' blend talk that is just disgusting to see scroll past on my chat bar...
At least once when someone was lining up an attack on me, I was linked with that - but clearly from someone who didn't even know me, as they stated they hated those people that 'talk funny and act gangster' or something like that...
SL does take to an extreme the issue that happens in RL, which in RL I encounter as an 'hispanic / mulatto' appearing person - that people of color are judged as a category and people who are Caucasian appearing get judged individually for their own conduct and traits.
I'm of English and German descent and never even considered dating a black guy until I met my current boyfriend Tyree (who is very black). I was five months on the rebound from breaking up with my fiancé when Tyree asked me to go with him to a Christmass party and I accepted. We dated for a month before our relationship became sexual. After breaking up with my fiancé I stopped taking the pill and didn't start back on them again until six days before I had sex with Tyree. Evidently six days wasn't long enough because I fell pregnant with our son. Tyree was in a relationship with someone else at the time and I'm the reason that they broke up. His ex-girlfriend threatened to kick my "big white butt" for about 10 months until our son was born. She has left us alone after that. We've been together for almost three years now and have two sons together.
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I'm of English and German descent and never even considered dating a black guy until I met my current boyfriend Tyree (who is very black). I was five months on the rebound from breaking up with my fiancé when Tyree asked me to go with him to a Christmass party and I accepted. We dated for a month before our relationship became sexual. After breaking up with my fiancé I stopped taking the pill and didn't start back on them again until six days before I had sex with Tyree. Evidently six days wasn't long enough because I fell pregnant with our son. Tyree was in a relationship with someone else at the time and I'm the reason that they broke up. His ex-girlfriend threatened to kick my "big white butt" for about 10 months until our son was born. She has left us alone after that. We've been together for almost three years now and have two sons together.