[Pointy things]

As the others have mentioned the sim owner has the ability to enable damage.. As do meters. Some meters, ( GM for example but there are several), are added to the avatar itself, then if you are struck with a scripted sword you take damage.. Your meter ( glowing over head) will start to drop % and change color until you have been downed.

[Starting a group for this?]

Honestly in my opinion stalkers find you * or think they have* no matter what.. They look for you in groups they know you will belong...( decides to not continue with what could turn into the how to stalk rant ). If you want to try a group its only gonna cost you 100L so give her a shot.. See if you get any bites. Worst that can happen is people don't join. Those that do will probably just fish for new connections among the others there. ~ Just my two cents

[For those who knew her or care...]

My heart goes out to you and your family ( hugs)