[Prim autoreturn]

If you are the sim owner, you can set an auto return and your items will not be returned, only the ones who may rez items will have them returned, like your group, or just anyone. If it is a free rez sim and someone rezes something, it will be returned in the amount of minutes you set auto return for.

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Hi, you could always be a parent, child, or pet. It might cost a little, but it is worth it. Try Next Generation Incas an adoption agency.