[why is my deed button grayed out?]

I bought a music box that needs to be deeded to the group.  following instructions wear group title, am officer, click share button, but deed button is grayed out.  owner of parcel checked and parcel is group owned but deed button also grayed out for her.  how can we deed anything?

[why can't i deed an item (media switch)? Am officer of land i rezzed it in.]

I bought a media switch to play cds from an inworld performer.  media switch was part of the purchae product.  Says i only need to rez it on group land and then deed it to the group.  Yes, wore my group tag.  That didn't work so had the land owner try it and it didn't work.  deed button is grayed out on both our edit windows of the media switch.  How to fix this???