Hey yazilaxulah21
1- click on the Advanced Menu at the top of the screen. If it is not next to the Help menu, press ctrl+alt+D to make it show
2-Select Debug settings.....a small window will open. select "RenderUnloadedAvatar" from the drop down box and then set it to "True" then click the X in the cornerto close the window
3-This will stop you from seeing others as clouds but not stop you from being one to them. They must change their settings for that
i hope that will help you thnx xoxo (megan nicole)