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I’m a text escort in SL. Not looking for validation or anything like that. Just saying for clarity. I have been exploring Femdom, BDSM and other kinks which has been really interesting for me. I joined a bunch of groups looking for a community and I was really excited when I found one that I felt I could fit in with. Until recently when I arrived to attend an event and was told that I could only stay if I took the escort club picks out of my profile because it gives people the wrong idea. I asked what that meant and did not get a response. Sure it’s not a big deal to take them out of my picks for the event. I don’t mention escorting anywhere else in my profile. But this really bothered me because honestly, I expected more from a Femdom community that bills itself as laid back, like to be open and accepting of my independent choices, as a woman in charge of my SLife. I was not there to solicit for business, to cause trouble or send the wrong message. I was there for an event to make friends and hopefully find a community. Instead of being welcomed I felt judged and not welcome. I guess i’m just wondering am I being over sensitive, or is it not ironic to be turned away from a Femdom community for being a escort? I’m fully aware that I may be taking this way too seriously, but come on, so are they!