okay im having an issue with my friendlist

[Adrienne Riler]

okay im having an issue with my friendlist and its just one friend on my list that i cannot see. i can see them online on the secondlife website but i cant see them online in world now i have 3 accounts and i have them added on all 3 and i still cannot see them online in world and no to answer your question they do not have me blocked or muted or hiding their online stats from me because i was just on voice with them and they crashed and then i left a message as soon as they logged off and they appeared back online but wasnt really back online and now i cant see them online nor my messages are going through to them i kept trying to spam them with messages to make them appear back offline till they logged back on but nothing has worked i relogged i cleared my stuff i turned my computer off tried differnt viewers even tried to log into mobile and i still see them offline and they cant get none of my messages its like its not going through now when i make like a group chat with me and them and one of my alts they can get my messages through that way but they still appear offline i can also call their box its just i cant see them online or message them just one on one now i made a alt just now to see if they get my messages and they get my messages just fine idk what is going on but if someone could please help me firgure out what is going on please that would be great also i forgot i also tried to deleted and remove them and add them back but they are not even getting that its not going through to them 

[Rolig Loon]

Whew.

That is one super long sentence with no punctuation or capitalization. It's very hard to read.  I doesn't sound like you have a problem at all, though.  If I understand correctly, your friend has an unstable connection, crashes every once in a while, and probably isn't getting fully logged in.  She has the problem.  She can consult http://blog.nalates.net/2011/10/26/troubleshoot-your-sl-connection/ for ideas about how to fix it.