DaraDiVonne Posted July 23, 2016 Share Posted July 23, 2016 Here goes nothing.So I'm pretty new to SL, and I've met a couple of people that I can talk to every now and then, but it's honestly become a frustration. I look around SL and most people are inactive or away from keyboard, or don't like to talk to new people, or only looking for sex, etc, and the ones that are active, a lot of them are trolls and bots. I honestly just came to chat and make friends. I walk into a room with 30+ people and everyone's either quiet or chatting in IMs or don't want to reply when I try to chat with them. I'm feeling a little discouraged with this VR. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quinn Lysette Posted July 23, 2016 Share Posted July 23, 2016 are u a real life female in real life? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Meowla Posted July 23, 2016 Share Posted July 23, 2016 ha..thats a problem im having too. I just want to casually chat with people and for some reason it's difficult to find people who arent creepers. feel free to send me an IM. Im in the beta grid right now tho Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blurry84 Posted July 24, 2016 Share Posted July 24, 2016 Dara - It can be hard to get to know people around SL sometimes, people tend to stick to themselves and not many seem all that interested in being a walking tutorial for newbies. I feel your pain, I've been around for awhile but I'm still pretty noob-ish and sometimes trying to just find something to do can be frustrating. Feel free to hit me up with an IM sometime Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Madelaine McMasters Posted July 24, 2016 Share Posted July 24, 2016 Hi Dara, Every Sunday, Hippie Bowman announces the venue for the weekly 8AM SLT gathering of the Breakfast Club in this thread... https://community.secondlife.com/t5/Make-Friends/Where-are-all-my-friends-Come-on-in-and-lets-get-comfy-by-the/m-p/710077 Stop by next Sunday, you'll meet some nice people! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
laceymichelle2 Posted July 25, 2016 Share Posted July 25, 2016 message me ill talk to yall Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Natfinkwonda Posted July 26, 2016 Share Posted July 26, 2016 Message me when you are on and I'll talk to you :-) I'm a bit newish myself. But happy to chat and help where I can :-). I'm quite shy sometimes, but if you get to know me I think I am pretty decent. I always try and repeat the mantra 'loving kindness'. And I can show you a few fun places :-) Sometimes it is easier to chat if you are doing an activity. I go to a lot of beaches and gardens, and you can end up meeting people there. Or maybe you could go to a Builders' Brewery - where there is no roleplay. The group chat will be about building. But you may find some friends that you can talk to in IM there :-) It was friendly when I went there :-) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Red Hancroft Posted July 26, 2016 Share Posted July 26, 2016 Hey! Feel free to message me inworld. I've only just come back to SL after years away so I'm pretty much in the same boat. Would love to chat Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hippie Bowman Posted July 27, 2016 Share Posted July 27, 2016 Thank you Maddy! Yes Dara! Please do join us for some breakfast and some fun! I'm me in world when you get a chance too! Peace! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AuroraLights22 Posted July 28, 2016 Share Posted July 28, 2016 (Eh this wasn't posted too long ago sooo...) Hi, actually i've been wanting to meet some new faces on SL for while it's been a biitt lonely since everyone I know doesn't come on really anymore and just jumping into an over filled area is a bit intimidating I suppose since you are right it is hard to find a decent person who would just want to talk to you. It's been awhile since i've had some sort of enjoyment on SL and I havent been on really in while So feel free to IM me in SL if you want. Im just a nice chill person ya know Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keelin Lexington Posted July 29, 2016 Share Posted July 29, 2016 I know how you feel. I left SL for a while and my friends are no longer on. I spend a lot of my SL time at home and shopping. Feel free to IM me. You could come over for coffee or something. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rabid Cheetah Posted July 31, 2016 Share Posted July 31, 2016 Well, if folks are ignoring you at all the "super cool people" dance clubs or whatever (you know, places like RollzEyez, WeB2Kewl4U, and ActLikeURStillInHighSchool), don't help them with their traffic numbers. Find better places to go. Since you're new, you might want to try the Welcome category. My favorite is The Shelter, because you know a place geared for new players has gotta be a nice place if folks who've been playing the game for ten years keep coming back. Also make sure your profile is filled out a bit, so folks get some sense of who they are talking to. And be sure to say more than just "hi", "how r u" or "FUD PLZ!!!" Wait, that last one was The Sims Online. Never mind. Finally, thought it's rhather hit or miss, pull up a map and look for green dots. Those are people in game at the moment. Walk on over to their place, and, if you're lucky, they might be friendly. Don't get discouraged though if they freak out that you dared to walk on the sidewalk adjacent to their property. Some folks are like that lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arden Sirnah Posted August 3, 2016 Share Posted August 3, 2016 I too have been away for some time and lost all the friends I did have. I came back to all this mesh bodies and heads. So I spend my days working out my new stuff and shopping of course. I also like taking pictures even though it's amateur photographey I just do it for fun. But those are my days. I'd like to have people to chat with and do things with. I can come off a bit shy at first but I always come around. If anyone would like to chat or become friends I'd like that. We can meet up for coffee or dancing or shopping. Send me an IM. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jai Skytower Posted August 8, 2016 Share Posted August 8, 2016 Feel free to shoot me a message anytime. Jai Skytower (Aria Michelle) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Talligurl Posted August 13, 2016 Share Posted August 13, 2016 I wil talk to you look me up Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jaci Lurra Posted August 13, 2016 Share Posted August 13, 2016 Hi there. I'm Jaci. I've been in SL for many years, but always enjoy meeting new people! I am the owner of CheekyGeeky (Home Furniture and Decor) as well as the Empress of the Eternal Restless Bloodlines Horde. I enjoy family RP, Bloodlies RP, breedables and buliding. Please shoot me an IM if you'd like to chat! Best, Jaci Lurra Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rosiedarkstorm Posted August 14, 2016 Share Posted August 14, 2016 Hey looking for people who think the same to go on as a join land owners on a full sim startng a buisness. it consists of shops and rentals and a club so f you are intrested i like to know u and we can talk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DaraDiVonne Posted August 16, 2016 Author Share Posted August 16, 2016 Aight guys I'm just gonna reply and say that I'm all good lolll. I was told I sounded a little sad in this thread, and I didn't mean to. I'm still up for getting IMs if you guys wanna chat and have some fun Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JaneyBijoux Posted August 27, 2016 Share Posted August 27, 2016 Hey Dara! If you like going dancing I hang at a super fun place called DANCE CLUB SOHO - It's Dance music club and the people are really nice and chatty - really genuine people just looking to have fun and chit chat and dance, talk about random stuffs and make friends - almost like a family atmosphere like 'Cheers' where everyone starts to know your name hehehe Feel free to IM me inworld: JaneyBijoux or just search the club up, I'm usually hanging around Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Arden Sirnah Posted August 27, 2016 Share Posted August 27, 2016 Oh thanks for the suggestion on the club. I will have to look that up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
electricgirl101 Posted October 12, 2016 Share Posted October 12, 2016 yes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
electricgirl101 Posted October 12, 2016 Share Posted October 12, 2016 someone please friend me cause im new and need friends Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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