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I mean it's mostly my fault because I'm so damn awkward and quiet when I try and talk to people tbh. But I would actually like some friends to hang out with every now and then! It gets pretty boring when I'm just by myself all the time.... I've never really roleplayed, but I would be up to try I guess o.0. I mostly just shop and whatnot, but I would like to go to events and have fun and stuff. xD

Some of my interests are: Videogames, Art, Fashion, Dubstep, Trap music, Horror, Poetry, Science.

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If I wanted friends but was socially inhibited, I think I would try role playing. I am naturally introverted (tho not shy) but when I was a teacher, I played the role of Mrs. X , who practically tap danced on her desk to capture and hold student attention.

then after school, I didn't want to talk to anyone. 

ETA The worst thing to do is to announce that you are shy, which is considered by some a type of pathology, and means to many that you do not intend to do your share of the conversational work or take any initiative. 

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Well, I guess the thing is that I don't like being quiet, or that's not really my intention. It's hard for me to try keep a conversation going unless it's something that I really have in common with someone, or if we have the same type of personality. It's not that I don't try to start conversations. I would really like to break this introvert habit of mine, but I didn't know how to go about it but to finally post something here. It's kind of hard to explain, I'm just being honest. :matte-motes-confused:

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Introversion is the new black.

Introverts do hate small talk. I don't have advice on how to find a group with common interests. I just build and run my store, I don't really socialize, except here. 

Btw, find out your Meyers Briggs type, will help you to accept your preferences. I am INFP, usually the oddball in any group.

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I'm sorry for you that you feel lonely :/ that's what I want to be all the time, cause I enjoy it to be alone and to explore. But peoples usually IM me, everywhere I go. I think it's all about the avi. As I had an Standard avi in the past, my sl beeing was also very quiet. By the way, shoping is an great things ;) and for that it's better to be alone :)

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  • 2 weeks later...

I am interest to make friendship with you here or skype or yahoo too. I will be waiting for your positive answer or mail. 

my mail id : rajakumar.1@yahoo.com ; skype : Raja Kumar : rajakumar.1@yahoo.com ; I have No friends here. I am male 27yrs. Post Graduate. Interest in Fun and chating too.

bye..... yours friend forever,

 

Raja.

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 I'm not sure if I'm back in SL or not yet, mostly not so far, which is too bad because I freaking love awkward people! I also love A-holes, idk why, but awkward and A-holes are two of my favorite peoples :matte-motes-nerdy: You can message me if you'd like, just don't get worried if it takes a while to get a response, I've only made it on twice in the past 6 months or so. (by the way, I've tried roleplay, and I'm too damn awkward for it) 

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I have been in here for years too and it seems the same deal for me. I make friends and they leave SL or switch to alts.

The worst is they rush into relationships and partner up then a couple of months later if it goes wrong they get depressed and leave sometimes.

You end up with a hundreds of names on your friends and only a handful of regulars. 

 

Look me up.

 

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