Discover who removed you from friends

[Shiva Meiler]

Is it possible to know if someone of your friends removed you from their friend list? I use the Firestorm Viewer.

[Sassy Romano]

Why even care?

My friends don't need to be in a contact list, I already know who they are.

They should just rename that feature from "Contact/Friends List" to "Dramatainment List"

[Sidnella Riler]

If they remove you, you won't see their name anymore either.

[Syo Emerald]

If they remove you, you won't see them on your own friendlist either. And if you can't remember who was on your friendlist...why does it matter to you anyway?

[LlewLlwyd]

You could do a regular comparison of your Friends List with your Calling Cards folder.

When you are bored with watching paint dry, or grass growing.

[Celestiall Nightfire]

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Shiva Meiler wrote:

Is it possible to know if someone of your friends removed you from their friend list? I use the Firestorm Viewer.

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If a person is missing from your friend's list, then it's safe to assume that they removed you.  (Or, you could look at it as they removed themselves)

That's, if you're positive you didn't remove them. 

A "friend's list" doesn't have any bearing on who can be your friend.  I've friend's in SL that aren't on my "list", and people on my list, that I've never talked to.  

 A lot of people periodically prune their friend's list, as they like to keep it small. 

[Shiva Meiler]

Oh I didn't know it was so simple! lol 

I was thinking about it because I have a quite long friends list but most of them are always offline so I thought they had removed me from friends...thank you everybody for your answers!

 

[Sidnella Riler]

they might "appear offline" to you, lot os people does that, but in some viewers you can see who hides, can't remember which viewers, it is a pretty silly thing to do, if they don't want you to see them, they should just delete, not hide, but that could be the case

[Sassy Romano]

So flip it around and take the positive step of just removing all those who are permanently offline that you haven't had contact wtih for a week or two.

Those that don't care or who have gone on to other things, i.e. left SL won't know or care.  The few who might kick up drama "YOU REMOVED ME?" are the prime candidates to definitely remove.

[Shiva Meiler]

Hahahaha you're totally right! I'm definitely going to follow your advices Thank you again!

[hollowgirl78]

When someone deletes you their calling card ends up in your trash folder, since I go through my trash and empty it on the daily to make sure I am not accidentally deleting something important, I have caught when someone has deleted me. But honestly, why care? 

[Crim Mip]

Pretty much this. I don't worry about it and I go through my contacts occasionally and remove those I haven't had any contact with. I memory for names is poor so if I don't have contact with somebody for a while I'll forget why they are even on the list. I consider it a contact list, not a friends list and having it a manageable size makes it far more useful to me as such. I can always re-add them if they resume regular contact. The quickest way to ensure you never get on it again is to make a big deal about being removed.

[MinkBlueleaf Fyrewik]

Yes, check trash can. Calling cards end in there from removal.

[Bree Giffen]

You just answered a question! Are you OK?

[LlewLlwyd]

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Bree Giffen wrote:

You just answered a question! Are you OK?

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I lied misleadingly, but potentially plausibly.

It's my new approach.

Well, if they are going to waste MY time . . .

[BilliJo Aldrin]

In firestorm, when someone unfriends you, a copy of their calling card goes into your trash folder.

 

 

[Kenbro Utu]

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BilliJo Aldrin wrote:

In firestorm, when someone unfriends you, a copy of their calling card goes into your trash folder.

 

 

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Just what we need, more drama fodder.