I have a stalker

[Myfanwy Acer]

I have had bother from this guy a long time and reported him to LL.didn,t see him in ages,but he came back and started again,telling my SL husband lies about me.i de rendered and black listed him.now I can't see him,but seems he can still see me and I'm,s me with sarcasm.is there a way,he cannot see me? That's what I thought blacklisting was,he is also sending pics to my husband with my face on,but with dress I don't own,superimposed we call it.so I just want to be invisible to him,if you can help please?

[Alwin Alcott]

when he can IM you, you didn't block him, but only derender.

If you block/mute him he won't be able to contact you.

If your hubbie does the same, the fun for him will be over soon.

[Lindal Kidd]

Alwin's right.  If you Block/Mute someone, they cannot send you IMs or local chat or any inventory offers.

However, Muting does not make YOU invisible to THEM.  That's not possible, in general.  But, on your own land, you can go to About Land, Options tab, and uncheck the box that says "Avatars outside this parcel can see/hear avatars inside this parcel."  That will make all avatars on your land invisible and inaudible to any avatars outside your land, and vice versa.