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  1. When I think of the term “primal fear” many things run through my mind. The wonderful movie Primal Fear that starred Edward Norton and that awesome ending scene that gives me goosebumps to this day. Admittedly, I looked at mankind a bit more animalistic in nature after watching this movie. This movie comes highly recommend to adults. Another happy thought that comes to mind is the German speed metal band Primal Fear. The music is full of raw emotion and oftentimes makes me feel a bit primal. The vibes that the music gives me is almost animalistic and a kind of no holds bar feeling. Music is a big defining factor for me when creating a experience that is life-like and as real as I can make it. Having a person blindfolded and bound while listening to screams can be a bit terrifying to some. A very memorable primal play scene was in the movie about the band, The Doors but the movies main focus was on Jim Morrison. I remember a scene in which guy playing Jim Morrison acted as if he was a wild beast and pounced upon this vampire-like lady who oozed sexual primal energy. I believe she was some sort of photographer or writer. In one fun scene they chased each other around her house naked and leapt into the air on top of one another while sometimes biting one another or scratching each others bodies in this powerful sexual exchange between two very primal beings. Do we relate any of these types of behaviors has primal or just plain wild? Is the feeling of being primal feel freeing to you? Do you love how frightened you become during this type of play depending upon who you are in the D/s relationship or your place on the food chain of life. The fear that one might feel in primal play is one that is truly scary and heart dropping and sometimes has no boundaries once they have already been set and discussed prior to play. You are free to now be who you have always wanted to be. Free to prey and roam the world mark your property if you so wish. As a Professional Dominatrix I admit that I do enjoy feeling primal truly dependent on whom the sub is. I enjoy the freeness and lack of high protocol at times and want to feel wild. Being a bit out of control at times and everything not so precisely calculated and more spur of the moment while acting upon your natural instincts. I enjoy biting and maybe I like pretending to eat flesh which could scares the hell out of people but makes me feel good. Sometimes, I imagine what it would be like if I could actually draw blood with my teeth and take a bite with a willing participant.. Would you consider this, being primal? Sometimes I view myself as the predator in a game of catch. I may outsmart my prey using my mind and creativity or tackle them down physically with force or using restraints like ropes, chains or cages to confine my victim much like an animal does to its prey with force or agility. It’s a survival of the fittest. Some of the subs that I work with are part of the puppy play community. They enjoy sleeping in a cage, eat what is given to them, and rewarded when demonstrating good behavior during training or play. If they make a mess on the floor then a reward or even a smile is NOT given. The human dogs in this kind of play usually seek their owners/head of the class approval and acceptance. Do we as humans take responsibility for our instincts that we were genetically born with? The answer is yes because we are now educated and able to communicate with words and able to speak to just about anyone online. You can’t go around biting people. Taking people down physically will land you most likely in jail. We as humans have laws and morals. For example we cannot kill our enemies. Morally and financially you cannot mate with all the women in your neighborhood/pride. In BDSM, it is important to know your sub and to both have a clear understanding of what the needs and wants are and defined in your D/s relationship. Soon you’ll really get to know each other in this type of play and know what one wants without words and through gestures. Reading a physical beings facial expressions and gazing into ones eyes for the answer without words is very intimate. When I think primal the term primitive comes to mind and primal tribes. It’s amazing to see their ritualistic practices using dance, herbs, hunting, body scarification and piercing, and sometimes marking their territory as those in the wild and practice a real life survival of the fittest from day to day. In BDSM, we practice many or the ritualistic primal practices that primitive tribes did and some still do to this day. Ask yourself if you can procreate without choosing a life mate rather than moving on to the next one? Even though this is primal instinct we do have ramifications with our actions and responsibilities as a parents as animals do when teaching young about life. Primal Fear the band was playing in the background. I enjoyed listening to Blood, Sweat and Fear. Written By; Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur AKA LydiaDee666
  2. It is important to clearly define your D/s role for a healthy BDSM relationship, you must have a consensual, and trusting relationship that is formed from the beginning and goals defined. As a new submissive explores this type of relationship. The sub will be expected to schedule time with their Mistress and go through appropriate screening measures expected from the Professional Dominatrix. Each Mistress may have a way of screening and taking sessions that is different from one another. Respect their individual ways of doing this. Personally, I do not take clients who do not sound like fun. I want the experience to be entertaining for myself mostly and for the submissive to feel at ease with each new experience with me. Do a little research before scheduling time with a Mistress. If you want to try something specific find out if the Mistress even caters to that request first. Also, keep an open mind as a submissive when trying new play techniques. Discuss limits upfront from the viewpoint of both roles in the relationship. If I accept a newbie into my dark and the sometimes twisted world consider yourself extremely lucky as a submissive. Never take your time with Mistress for granted. The knowledge and training your Mistress has is not even worth one minute in currency terms. Always keep that in mind when serving. If you’re lucky enough to get an exploratory session together and meet together in a safe and sane environment consider this gold. During your first few encounters in your new D/s relationship, you should ultimately feel more at ease and giving up your control to your counterpart. During the initial phase of playing the Mistress is evaluating you on many different levels to include things such as tolerance level to different play types. You will be discussing intimate details of your medical history/medications and honestly giving the feedback your Mistress needs. For example, if you are on blood thinners it's important for your Mistress to know this information up front. Taking into account that a person is on this type of medication would notify the Domme to take special precautions during certain types of play that may involve skin breaks. Discussing your mental health background and medication list with your Mistress is very important to know from the start so that healthy boundaries are set for future progression of the D/s relationship. For example, if you have been through a traumatizing event in your life that caused you to be diagnosed with PTSD this information is very important to disclose upfront to your Mistress so that she is aware of any triggers you may have before playtime begins. Expect as a submissive to possibly go over formalities and safe words in the beginning to define your safety concerns in your submissive role. Let the Mistress define to you what she expects of you. Do not play director to your Mistress or act like a know it all. Your Domme will talk with you more in-depth as to her expectations such as formal ways to greet her and exiting after a session. The Mistress may test your knowledge during the session to see if you were paying attention. A submissive must be a good listener and be able to take in the information given and process it the way the Domme as defined their role. When first playing in your D/s role as a submissive it may take your brain several days to process the information and get absorb the feeling that you had while serving. How were the chemistry and internal discussions you had while serving your Mistress? Did you feel more at ease towards the end of your first session? The chemistry in each D/s relationship is vital to growth in the future. It’s good to know if the match is not successful from the beginning. If the match is not good then consider this when moving forward. Your personal experience will make the process a little bit easier when meeting another Professional Dominatrix in the future. Having different styles and ways of playing is what makes this world of BDSM so great. When trying new play that is not familiar to you in a submissive role the Mistress is most likely keeping tabs in her head. I myself like to say, “ try it you might like it.” It’s important to not judge yourself if you find something that once may have been taboo to you. It’s also good to talk about your feelings after the session with permission of course. During the initial meet and greet phase of the D/s relationship the Mistress is making mental notes of questions she will need to know the answer too. Can this person have marks? If so, what experience does the submissive have and tolerance today to this type of play? Is this play something they may want to continue? As a Domme how could you make your slave progress in the future with this type of play? Mentally, is the submissive taking in the experience well or not? The lines of communication should be respected and open in the first two sessions but may be different from each Mistress. No question is a dumb question unless you like humiliation but always listen when your Mistress gives you the answer. Repeating the answer is okay if you did not comprehend it but if you just were not listening then more discipline and training may be needed from the slave in the future? As a Domme, discussing a slave’s bad behavior before it starts and correcting the issue immediately gives both parties a better understanding of the expectations set. As for punishment, I do not believe in giving the submissive a punishment they like. Why would it be a form of punishment then? During the initial evaluation of the slave, the Mistress will take mental notes during play of likes and dislikes of the slave. The slave’s punishment at the beginning of a new D/s relationship may be as simple as ignoring the slave or having them tied down while tickling them. As the relationship progresses the punishments may be more intense because you already know what is expected of you in the submissive role and you just did not follow through with the Mistress’s commands. Overall, the initial meet and greet is exciting to me and challenging at times. Personally, getting to know each person individually and explore the fetish world together is something that your submissive will never forget. It’s important to have a connection to your Dominant partner so that trust is gained when playing more intensely in the future. The song that was playing in the background when writing this article was Korn, Freak on a Leash which is appropriate I believe but who defines a freak? Written By: Mistress Lydia D’Ouleur AKA LydiaDee666
  3. When I first came to SL I thought it was a role play social game that is all fun, Only to find out there are some real life components to this game; especially when it comes to relationships here. Now there are some people who take this as all roleplay and that is fine for some people, but others don't. I was even fortunate enough to meet people who met on SL and are married IRL. With Second Life (with everything that is on the internet) there can be serious danger to your person information so please don't give anyone anything that you wouldn't want to be exposed to the public. Also just take as much precautions as possible when you are meeting someone on SL for the first time as well. The finally thing that want leave you all with is, that when it comes on to love on SL if things are not working out and your not happy, you can always walk away from the relationship. I know a few of you might be thinking but we made a life on SL or we spent so much time with them that if I leave that person, my SL I wont be the same again. This is why I always say this, that being said, it is possible to be unhappy in a SL relationship and it can be for many reasons, and when talking it out doesn't work and sitting the relationship is making you unhappy, that's the key time to leave a relationship. One more thing I forgot to add was it possible to get hurt emotionally here on SL because as my quote explains, you are playing with real people and people have real emotions. We should always try to respect each other on SL. That's all for now and have a great day 😊.
  4. SECONDLIFE is AWESOME … but it tends to get a bad wrap! Some people in RL have come to think of it as a place for freaks & pervs, because it is, to them … ALL ABOUT the ('Pixel') SEX!! NOT EVERYONE that comes to SECONDLIFE (SL) is focused on 'pixel sex'. There are people who come to SL with a plan; they come for purely creative and intellectual pursuits; people who form relationships that are based upon sameness in goals, attitude, thought and spirit. Their goals are broad and more productive and, overall, mutually beneficial for everyone in the SL Community, no matter what role or fantasy others choose to engage in. These individuals, the "Realistic Dreamers", they look to make their Virtual Life (VL) benefit, not only their VL and Real Life (RL); but also the VL and RL of 'everyone connected to and/or supportive of' these "Realistic Dreamers". These "Realistic Dreamers" are focused on making their SL pay for itself through their creativity; and their success in achieving these efforts, often times, also build/fuel the economy of our VL's. How? and Who are these "Realistic Dreamers", you might ask? The "Realistic Dreamers" are every resident that provides any of the quality homes, goods, services, products, textures, events, fashions, scripts, sims, regions, etc. … that we enjoy! In supporting them, we support ourselves; we help make it possible for them to expand their efforts to be even more creative and, in enabling them to extend their goal of increased productivity, they can extend, to those of us who have the interest, the opportunity of employment within their ventures as part of their team(s). So I see Second Life, it's potential to be a place of productivity … rather than over sexuality! Yeah, … it's true, the "Realistic Dreamers" are human and may have needs too; but NOT ALL are DRIVEN by it! Had they spent most of their time 'in the bed' rather than at the drawing board or 'more time chasing tail' than 'actually chasing their dreams' … we'd still be trying to make our own 'prim clothing', still be living in 'Flintstone looking homes', walking like ducks … and 'emoting sex' rather than using animations! So hat's off to the "Realistic Dreamers" that got our VL's off to a more 'Realistic' existence!! Thank you for FOCUSING more on your personal "Realistic" dreams than your dreams of your (sexual) passion. Nevertheless, for some, in addition to their goals, yes, … for some there is a need for companionship … and that is private, … as well as okay; and I am sure' …, or I'd like to believe, that … 'that is as well and discretely done, as their other objectives! For it has been said: "All work and NO play … (makes for a very dull and uneventful existence)! I get it, ...but here, again … this is entirely personal. NO JUDGEMENTS! I began my journey through SL in 2008, … and it has taken me all this time to finally arrive as one desirous of being a "Realistic Dreamer". I will share more about my new found direction later. Right now, I want to take a break to thank you, … so 'Thank YOU' for having read this far. If I haven't bored you to death already, I hope you will follow me … as I continue to share what I have observed and come to (better) understand about SL and other Virtual Worlds; but my focus here will mainly be Second Life. Thank you again … until next time … 'stay well, stay safe and stay productive!' - Joleene Constantine-Solare (aka, littlebittieone resident).
  5. Hello my original name is KiLL4ViX3N and my new tag name is showing FELINE9LIVES .I love my virtual kitties and i share in the 9lives ,that is assumed or were led to believe. I love SL but not a social butterfly who feels comfortable in real crowds or SL crowds. I'm more of a wall flower who observes,dances and enjoys music. I would love to meet new friends. I am bi-sexual and hoping to meet my SL partner in love and my bestfriend. Message me or IM me. Avatar must be updated and you must care about your avi appearance. PLEASE. I do know what i want in AND we all have preferences. Thank you and hope to meet you all soon. I am not perfect and i do have flaws. Thank you for pointing them out. I do believe love has no boundaries and everyone deserves to find love. I should have took more time and thought before writing this. I apologize if i offended anyone . May we all be kinder to each other .
  6. It occurred to me that the Relationships forum might be the right place to wish all of you happiness and success in whatever kind of relationship you favor - including “none” if you aren’t into relationships 🙂 Have a wonderful day. I’m sure if you choose to tell the people who make your life *better* what they mean to you; they’ll appreciate the sentiment. Unless of course you do that naked-but-for-a-coating-of-butter in a “G” rated sim or with their disapproving spouse present.....that could be awkward. Oh heck, do whatever floats your boat 🙂. We all only get a limited amount of sunrises; make the most of yours and try to be happy ! .....someone pass the butter
  7. This is a group for those with will and passion in taking creative SL photos from everywhere around the grid and uploading them online; for fun, inspiration, and even popularity. Superstar Angels is a way to socialize, get active in SL and have fun, for any gender, and any kind! Join us today! On Flickr: https://www.flickr.com/groups/14697931@N23/ (WORK IN PROGRESS)
  8. So I'd like to ask a question, have anyone tried dating on second life before? What was your experience? good/bad/other? I'm personally trying casual dating to see who i'm compatible with and who i have the most chemistry with. So I'd like to know if you're dating anyone what has your overall experiences been like? What is an ideal thing to do/or place to go regarding dating on second life? Did it turn in dating in real life? or a full fledged relationship? Thank you for your contribution.
  9. Hi, people of Second Life, I'm looking for some second life content for the Second Life part of my site (www.thetorchentertainmentguide.com). I would love for you to answer the question "What is your crazy Second Life relationship story?" Here are the rules: 1) No drama in the forum thread below 2) No SL Usernames AKA no naming and shaming 3) I do want to publish the best stories onto my site and you will be credited for it. Nothing will be changed other than, of course, grammatical, spelling errors and any names put forward by you to protect the person or persons involved. 4) Second Life Relationships only please, length of time you were in the relationship doesn't matter I.e. From a week to a month or a year etc. 5) Humourous stories only the crazier the better. This should be fun to share your experiences with others. 6) Please, no mean-spiritedness. This should be all in good fun. This is not meant to be a platform for you bash your ex. 7) Give some advice at the end of it, maybe something you wish you would have known before the relationship and what you learnt afterwards. 8) If you would like to be totally Anonymous you can do so, message me in the Forum inbox as well! The Best four crazy relationship stories will be published over the month on The Torch Entertainment Guide. Got any questions? Email me at kenniem@thetorchentertainmentguide.com Thank you.
  10. Hi! I'm Delphinia - returned from a good while away and I've found that many of my friends have moved on, of course...that's how life goes right? I'm not sure where everyone hangs out anymore - I haven't had a ton of luck finding like-minded individuals at random, so I thought I would drop a line here and take a chance that I might find some people in the same boat that I am. I'm looking to connect with fun-loving people, find common interests, hang out together or attend events...whatever strikes our fancy - whenever! I'm open to all - I think I can find some common ground with just about anyone - lgbt, straight, kink, vanilla, tiny, furry, robots, sci-fi, fantasy, fairies, cyberpunk, big, small, short, tall ...*takes a breath!* the list goes on and on!...it's the heart and mind - that we connect with, that's what I seek. I enjoy trying new things, exploring, relaxing or playing games, dancing/music, finding new fun things to do. If you have a favorite place, or thing you enjoy doing... drop me an LM, show me - I'll try just about anything once! Drop me a message here or privately or in Grid (Delphinia Muircastle) - I'm about most nights, weekends etc. Pacific Time. I'd love to meet ya! ❤️
  11. Second Life, a place where we can be anything, Mostly free of judgement, a place to express ourselves as anyone or anything we wish. So which Life is right? It all depends on you and what you always dreamed you could be. You are your only limit in Second Life. From tiny cats to giant dragons. Police Officers to prisoners its yours to decide. Me? I'm Desti, I change what I am to suit my mood. If you've seen me in world, you know I'm a bubbly and friendly sort. I host at the Caledonia Inn and Gardens, I love helping out with fundraiser opportunities such as Relay For Life, currently hosted at the Sci-Fi Convention. Check it out if you haven't yet. Under the character is just me. A real person with real feelings. This is something we often forget about others as we see pixels. I've learned that lesson about Pixels and feelings over and over again, and I'm sure most of you have too. We find someone and they drop us when the next tail comes along, and we're left hurting wondering why? This is simple, to some, Second Life is a place for hook ups. It's sad but true. You have to kiss a lot of frogs to find your prince as some would say. I guess this is true, Other than Love I can tell you, some of the friendships you make here are unbreakable. I found a home in Ontario Pointe, if you have yet to visit you should. Always something to do and people who will love you unconditionally. There's lots of places like this. Want a family? There's lots of prim babies to chose from! I personally like the K-Mae Babies. The First anemesh babies released in Second Life. Lots of toys and options, self care for those of us who work in second life and full care options for those of us who just want that maternal feelings back. I, like a lot of people wondered the value of these things and experiences, but have found through meeting other sl parents theres a multitude of reasons people adopt these wonderful little babies, From getting over the loss of a child in the real world, to simply desiring to be a parent again. The second Life parent community is huge and something to wonder at, I still do. Exploring is the best part of Second Life, for me anyway. I can see the world without leaving my house. If there's somewhere you've always wanted to go, I can promise you there is some talented creator somewhere who has built it. As I stated earlier, Second Life, is a place to be anything or anyone, see what you desire and find what you desire most, love, a relationship or a family, it really has it all.
  12. I am looking for a female companion. Living in the european time zone (SLT+9) would be great. IM me or PM me directly for details.
  13. 1 - For you couples in SL, do you get together with the intention of meeting in RL or, is it strictly SL for you? 2 - Also, what are your thoughts about people with RL partners (bf/gf/wife/husband) who have partners in SL? This includes RL partners that do, or do not know about the SL relationships? My answer - Personally, I think as long as the real-life partner knows about the SL relationship and is OK with it, then no one has any rights to judge. Actually honestly, I don't think anyone has any "right" to judge anyone else unless it directly affects that person. Does that make sense? I don't see how a rl partner would NOT know about an online partnership, friendship, or whatever the relationship is in SL.
  14. Hello Everyone ! So according to this interesting book called "The Five Love Languages", peoples have 5 ways to express Love in relationships: receiving gifts, Quality Time , words of affirmation, acts of service (devotion), and Physical touch. And from what i've understand even though we may appreciate more than one or all of them, people usually have a Language that they like more than the others. What's yours ? which language do you use most to express love and which one do you like to receive the most ? ( :
  15. Hi I am looking for a roomate. I live in a 2 floor skybox apartment, the place will be open for you to roam free no restrictions the room is a decent size you have a bathroom as well. You can decorate or use my furniture its completely up to you. There are about 10 other apartments in the building renting at 50L a week which is pretty damn good if you ask me. I pay 100L for my place because its bigger. So if you choose not to be my room mate you can also just rent your own apartment. I'm honestly looking for good friends you know and if we are neighbors or roomies that would be even better. Male and females are welcome to IM me in world. I'm on quite often so feel free to hmu or add me. Monaiesha is my name. IM me so I can show u place and we can get to know each other. If you are against sex or company this is not the place for you. Lol you can bring who u want over I do not care. Not looking for payment for the room!
  16. So I am curious to know has anyone married their SL partner in RL? If so are you still together and in love. Do you still get in SL together? and if you do is SL still fun?
  17. I'm sorry if this has been asked before, I didn't find any posts when I searched. The question is, has anyone here been in a long term, more than mere friends, sl relationship like for 8 to 11 or even more years? Has sl created such strong bonds that it endures and can last a lifetime beyond the existence of this platform? Was it hard to keep it going or was it easy for you? Were there breaks in between? How did you make it last long? What was the circumstances of both parties, if you care to share those too if not that's alright. If it was purely online or if you got to see each other in the physical world. If it ended and why? How did you feel about it? Others with less than the specified number of years can answer too. The same questions can be applied to sl friendships. I'm asking because the longest sl relationship that I have heard of was 6 years. Mine has gone on for nearly as long as my avatar has been in world, which is three years and nine months. I tend to get attached with the people that I form deep friendships, romantic relationships with, investing a lot of time, care and emotion into them. The idea that it's going to end is rather devastating. This isn't a survey, I'm genuinely interested and hopeful that long term bonds such as friendships, companionship, or romantic relationships in sl do exist.
  18. Hey! I'm Athena,Im 19 - Ive been in SL longer than probably should be.. '<_<.. >_>' I'm usually bubbly,fun,have a extremely creative and imaginative side. -but just like everyone else I have my demons. Typically youll catch me rpin' - doing photography or creating things for my store. I wanna find an SL only partner,as I already have a rl bf (yes,I know some people have their own ideas of what is and isnt okay in sl and have a rl bf and sl bf is weird.) however! what would make my sl more complete? finding my partner here.. Someone who is just as laid back,funny,creative - isnt afraid of bad jokes (or making them)...and just is overall a great person,if your interested in getting to know me - IM me ! inworld is AStormieDay Heres a few photos of my avi!
  19. i am new and wnated to start off with a relationship..if interested let me know below.
  20. Hello everybody, I am new to this game and haven't had much experience in meeting other people. I was just curious as to whether people actually create meaningful relationships with other residents. I was hoping some of you could share your stories of some of the most memorable moments you've experienced in Second Life. What is you're favorite aspect of Second Life and why do you continue to play it? What kind of impact has Second Life had in your real life? As you guys can probably tell, I'm a college student and I am writing a research paper on this virtual community. I would love to make friends and would appreciate it if someone would show me the ropes. So far, my experience in Second Life has been pretty positive but I know there's a lot more to see. Please share your stories with me.
  21. Hi! I'm looking for a BF in SL and also in RL! Any takers?
  22. I've been hanging out with my best SL friend for 10 months now. We do crazy stuff, we wander the Sims and we have a great time. Sometimes I feel like I've no time for anything else and just really want to go build something or shop. But I don't because he's been very loyal to me. 4 months ago I met someone else and hit it off with them too. It took about five minutes of introducing my old and my new friends to discover they REALLY did not get on. Thankfully my new friend is rarely on SL at the same time as me so I've still spent time with the old one for the most part. But I make time for my new friend when they are online. I realised jealousy was coming from both sides and had words with my new friend to be really clear that they needed to respect my friendship with my best mate and if they couldn't then my loyalty had to be with the person I'd known the longest. My new mate was amazing and admitted they'd been feeling jealous, said they'd work on it and ever since we've managed to make that side work. But today my old mate went off on a rant after I spent 30 minutes with my new friend. I TP'd my old mate in to my house (which is in an area I share with my best mate!) so I could say my goodbyes to the new person and head off on adventures with the old one. Instead the old one went silent and TP'd away after a while. Then once my new friend logged off sent me angry IMs about how much they hate my new friend. I honestly don't know what to do. I HATE drama. I just want to get along. I totally know I can't neglect either person (to be honest, given my SL revolves totally around the both I have been neglecting a lot of other people but... anyway) and I respect they don't get along. Is life too short for this drama? Do I cut ties? Do I get rid of the new friend and stick with the old? Do I start a set schedule and keep them totally separated (I've got other parcels of land... I can have two houses in totally different regions!)? Writing it all down just sounds so much like drama and that makes me hate the situation even more. I just want to have fun... explore... screw around... dress in crazy avatars. Am I expecting too much?
  23. I keep things SL no ands ifs ors or buts. If you are lucky enought to get that close to me then congradulations you are not the first one though. Honesty is key. A relationship without honesty is like a car without gas cant do nothing with it. Once my trust is broken it is extremely hard to get it back. If we are together in SL then respect me and i will respect you. Do not try and act like you can control me though. I would never try and control you so do not try and control me. I am bisexual so I flirt with both genders. I am okay with polyamorous relationships typically one man and one woman for me. However If we decide to to be monogamous then dont think you can just sleep around if you want to see other people to then be honest. I am a huge flirt and I am also pervy. look for me inworld milliewillow
  24. I am starting a new private practice inworld and would love to take on new clients. If you are interested in setting up a consultation please contact me inworld. Fiona Serendipity
  25. I would really like to build a real private practice in Secondlife as I feel many people can use talk therapy in their RL/SL lives. I need assistance in marketing and getting my practice out there if anyone has suggestions on the best marketing team/branding team. It is really important to have some stability in SL and I believe I can help those who want to be helped.
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