Pookrucker Guyot

Your right I wasn't clear ...what I ment was, my friend is showing not online. Then when I log on he logs on, he is in a very different time zone, so I am thinking "how come he is awake or even aware I am on"

When I come online this guy logs in too at the same time. He is showing as offline to me and when i message him it comes back as he is offline. Is there a way he can be online without me knowing ? Seems odd he can see when I am online, by random ...any suggestions ?

I cannot remember my password for my account, how do i get back in?