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Minx Kurosawa

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  1. Depends on the lie and how you react emotionally. If its something they THINK you can't handle and know you will pop off the deep end. They will probably lie to you or withhold information. Now if you want them to tell you the truth and nothing but the truth. Ask them to do just that... but be prepared for the good , bad and ugly of the truth.
  2. Panorama outside.. I can stick my head out the window tho.
  3. yup having the same problem... plus gateway time out" with the website. And I did not change anything!
  4. I hope so.. and I just hope they clean it all up completely.. it's not just gachas that are the problem.
  5. I'm just curious.. is there gonna be any future plans of cleaning up the marketplace?
  6. I honestly hand out with everyone. I don't hang out with just people of my own ethnic/nationality/cultural/race, etc. group. I just don't see the point in it personally. But each their own.
  7. About 6+ years ago there was this guy I was really into. We started talking and getting to know one another and had a lot of common when it came to taste in music and many other things. I was planning on going to the UK just to be with him, crazy huh? But there was one thing that stopped all that .. and that was my race. I didn't fit into his " racial " preference. Call it BS if you want too. But it's true... and this is why I have a full disgust for racism and prejudice under the guise of " preference" . It ruins true, wholesome connections with another human being that can really blossom into love if people just open their minds and their hearts. But I guess that's too much to ask from some people... Yea I have hopeless romantic syndrome.
  8. Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation in which a person or a group covertly sows seeds of doubt in a targeted individual or group, making them question their own memory, perception, or judgment Love bombing is an attempt to influence a person by demonstrations of attention and affection. It happens when someone overwhelms the victim with loving words, physical actions with manipulative behaviors. It can be used in different ways and for either positive or negative purposes. Psychologists have identified love bombing as a possible part of a cycle of abuse and have warned against it. Say in a domestic violence relationship... the woman/man leaves the relationship. The abuser will "love bomb" them until the come back into the abusive relationships. However love bombing online it can be pretty verbal, emotional abuse and manipulation. Basically them sending a bunch of love messages and you don't answer right away they go from zero to hundred and the negative messages come( basically curse words, and threats). Than they go under and alt and do the same crap again. I've been loved bombed before.. and it seriously messed me up emotionally to the point where I hardly talk to anyone new in-world. Yes, I know I can log off and forget it.. but I shouldn't have too.. and no one should have to deal with that. Yes you can mute them.. but that doesn't stop them from going under and new account and doing the same thing again.
  9. Deal breakers 1. Being neglected [ I.E. not logging in ] 2. Gaslighting and love bombing 3.Hiding under a mountains of alts 4. Not being upfront about where the relationship is going or what they want in a relationship 5. Racism/prejudice How to keep an sl relationship a live. 1. Be consistent 2. Be honest 3. Be faithful
  10. Sometimes, even people who roleplay take the roleplaying from second life and real life. I've seen it happen in a lot of roleplaying sims. Especially when it involved long term roleplay and ERP. It's best to tell that person upfront that you are only here for the roleplay and nothing more. But to not tell them your intentions and lead them astray can be a problem. Even if you may not take it serious. There are people on second life who take it quite serious. And they tend to catch RL feelings even if it was a completely platonic conversation , roleplay ,etc.
  11. I have reflux laryngitis where is messes up my voice and it's always hoarse and not feminine or soft. I tend to avoid public voice chat and only voice chat with friends because they understand my condition.
  12. I tried purchasing some linden today and it's says there is something wrong with my billing. I thought maybe it was something up with the bank, but there were no issues there. So is there something wrong on linden's side? Why can't I purchase Linden? Is there limit to how much linden I can purchase?
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