Hi Liz, I'm no professional but the head itself is not really what will make you look how you want - although it can help. An example would be if you google Catwa Catya head and look at the images, all the faces seen are using that head, but different skins. It's the skin that is key. I would suggest you start your quest by looking for more mature skin appliers for mesh heads. One example I found on googling 'mature skins mesh head' was this https://marketplace.secondlife.com/p/Izzies-Age-Yourself-LeLutka-Bento/11968726?id=11968726&slug=Izzies-Age-Yourself-LeLutka-Bento by Izzie for Lelutka's bento head. There's so much out there and it's all down to personal taste! Good luck.