what i don't understand is my parcel is very private, when i go to big stores or sims with lots of textures i have no issues at all, i see no grey objects so if my graphics card was the issue i would be having problems i would think at these other sims with way more textures than what is at my Home, I did find out today my landlord said they have had issues with our sim for awhile, an Sl GLitch something to do with the memory, i assume now this may be the issue, i had taken my whole house to a sandbox as a test, it was perfect, no grey or slow loading objects, i stayed for about an hour to make sure, all was fine,,