On same boat, something I have noticed on my last METACHAT day, the 30th of Nov 2020, was that Friends list was not loading at all in the app. Only able to use IM if anyone IM me..and only with those who IM'ed me.. Sick of this Bug I logged off, and went to Firestorm to see this Problem.
showing up as fog to others, Gray skin and fully dressed. I have Tried: new avatar, cache clear, other viewers, delete content on some current Look folders (via radgast app. DOES NOT WORK). file Ticket, speak with a Linden member in game.. waiting news.
Wear a mask. Keep safe. Peace.