Ceka Cianci

It depends on what's making me angry that determines how I'm going to deal with it.. At my work,I deal with a couple hundred people every night..There are always new people coming in and ones that have been there for how ever long,leaving or those that have been there forever and a day and think they are untouchable.. So it's constant training and making sure everyone is doing their jobs and being productive as well as dealing with those that get angry themselves. There is a lot of analyzing why I am angry at the time.. lucky for me there are two others that are in the same job as me,so we are constantly getting together to talk about what's going on and how to deal with certain situations.. Over time of doing my job,a lot of the things that used to make me angry,don't anymore..Mainly because I have much more experience of how to deal with most of the situations that pop up. Plus I have been fortunate enough to watch others and how they deal with a lot of the same situations..I try to rub a lot of the positive things they do onto myself.. There are times others will come to me also and say,I just can't deal with this guy,he has me ripping my hair out,do you think you can handle it? I'll say to them, Sure thing. If I can't and the other of the three can't as well..then it goes to the next person above us and a good chance this person is going to lose their job..Which is a last resort thing we ever want.. So it's important that we have our anger in check and really sure that it's not us just flying off the handle. Because with every person at work,there are most times someone out the outside depending on them..So it's not just the person doing the job that gets impacted.. The first thing I look at with myself is,am I angry or frustrated for a good reason.. ETA: Almost forgot to put in how I deal with any anger that might get pent up..Nothing works better for me than going for a nice morning run on my horse.. That's always pretty much where I will be when life gets to be too much or need a good release..With my best friend,running the hills

My husband accused me of shopping the other day.. Him:You've been on SL shopping again haven't you?!! Me:No honey ,I swear! I was only having Sex with strangers!! You gotta believe me! \o/ hehehehe

A lot of people use clothing as an expression of themselves though as well..Many people wouldn't be spending a fortune on clothes otherwise.. Some want to send a message with their clothes and appearance.. The important thing is to have common respect for each other until someone messes it up.. Sometimes that can happen the moment a person opens their mouth hehehehe

I think I'll wait a couple years or so to see if they are actually making an effort to keep it up or not.. once bitten twice shy

I usually don't even bother with gifts or gimmicks anymore when it comes to events..I'll just look on the Seraphim site to see what's there..If there is anything i want there, I'll just port there grab my stuff and I'm out of there and off to the next one.. I have so many gifts that are unopened in my inventory that they feel like the collection of freebies I got when I first came to SL hehehehe

Mine is My Assistant buyer..

do they still have that silly credit system to buy stuff or did they finally get rid of that junk?

Love is like,having a box of chocolates......That nobody else knows about.

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This was really amazing.

I would try it,but already been down the TMP road before.. I really liked their body they had the last time,but they never updated it..Most of the things i could find for it were like system clothes. If they decide to actually make a go of it I may try it out down the road..but I'm not jumping in early this time..

If I have a set of headphones on and looking at the computer and someone touches me,I will jump right out of my skin.. To add total blindness to the real world plus my hearing.. I don't even want to imagine what would happen when my husband sneaks up to scare the crap out of me.. It's not a matter of if it will happen,but how long he would wait before he did it.. I would never be able to relax,not even if I was at home alone.. Just way too gun shy now..hehehehe

I seem to have lost my,worlds largest flying pancake! \o/

World don't hate on us,we're fabulous

They keep adding to the name.. Before you know it,it's gonna be the SuperDuperPremiumCalifragilisticExpialidocious plan.

First thing I thought of was,The Ring.

I can't see how McDonald's or Real estate could become like a Gatcha.. I just bought another home about a week and a half ago..I'm trying to figure out how real estate could become anymore a gamble than it already is? Unless people are just buying houses site unseen..Then they are a fool that will soon be parted with their money. McDonalds having people roll the dice for lunch..yea,that'll fly hehehehe

I usually use basic animation B. I never could get that blink button to work either..But the basic animation B is pretty subtle and gives you blink also..

It was mainly just an example of some I've seen around.. I think nowadays fat packs irritate me more..1800 or more for a top..by the time you are finished getting the whole outfit it cost 6k lol Can get a mesh head and almost enough for a mesh body for what some tops and pants cost in a fat pack..where before they would at least put the outfit in the same fat pack hehehehe

Sounds like a way to call everyone that ever called in for a hangover an alcoholic if you ask me.. hehehehe The people I know that went to classes used the term problem drinker..I didn't ever have to take classes so maybe they call it something else.. ETA: I decided to look it up and here is what I found.. a problem drinker can become an alcoholic ,but not all problem drinkers are alcoholics. Alcoholism According to the National Institutes of Health (NIH), alcoholism is defined by: Tolerance: The need to drink more and more in order to feel a buzz or get drunk is one of the hallmarks of alcoholism. Physical dependence: After tolerance develops, many drinkers find that when they are without a certain amount of alcohol in their systems, they go into detox characterized by withdrawal symptoms. Cravings: Additionally, when without alcohol, many drinkers crave alcohol and cannot stop thinking about getting a drink until they have one in their hands. Compulsive drinking: Alcoholics are unable to stop drinking once they start. It’s almost impossible to have just one.

I was using treatment center definitions. rehabs and such,Because that is where the law sends people to.

The thing that made me stay away from them mostly is,all the useless junk that is in there with them..like 5 different flavors of a slushie.. When all i want is the jacket, top and shorts. hehehehe I usually wait a day or so for the things to hit the MP and find the one low balling the rest of them..hehehehe

That's not just my outlook,it's many states outlook as well..just talk to anyone that ever took and class for drinking and driving or substance abuse.

I think there is those that can have a problem and then there are those that can be addicted.. There is a pretty big difference in those.. I've known people that are problem drinkings and then some that are alcoholics.. To be a problem drinker,all that is required is for your drinking to impact your life in a negative way..Something as simple as someone calling into work because of a hangover.. Starting projects and having to get beer or whatever and stopping the project to hang out with buddies drinking rather than finishing the project. Addiction it becomes a part of their lives to the point that it becomes their lives and will more than likely be the death of them one day. I know more problem drinkers than I do alcoholics. Because for awhile there I had a few projects around the house getting half done until I laid the law down on them boys,,hehehehe A problem drinker you can straighten them up real quick..Someone addicted,they are an alcoholic for the rest of their lives even if they stop the drinking.

I thought it was a terrible attempt at trying to reboot The Matrix.. hehehehe