Sometimes it seems that way! Really all you need to do is get yourself into the right social circle. What is it that you enjoy doing in SL? For me, it's building. I belong to a few merchant and building groups, I hang out mostly with other creative types. Since I stopped going to clubs and completely closed my mind to the idea of SL relationships (even making a permanent break from The One), I rarely run into people asking for sex. *I stay out of newbie areas, freebie areas and most sand boxes. I'm sure there are nice sand boxes but I don't use them often enough to know which ones!