Luna Bliss
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the point is he is with a girl, why is he iming another girl, its just rude, that would be like texting during rl sex. i am doing the girl a favor by letting her know he thinks so little of her thats he is already looking for his next conquest You bring up a good point -- 'swingers' does not mean the same as 'orgy' nor does it mean all agreements between couples are ignored. -
You bring this up a lot and so I'm wondering who is telling you this. Of course, I agree, it is not homophobic to have a preference for your opposite gender.
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No it's not the same at all because having a sexual preference is not homophobic or transphobic. And it's not violence and any of the other garbage hurled at people to make them feel guilty. This is in response to @diamond Marchant too. I did not say that having a sexual preference makes one homophobic or transphobic at all. What I did say was that there is a reason why some men are homophobic -- it traces back to their ideas of masculinity, how they were socialized to take on the male role, and how this can be threatened if not in a heterosexual relationship. Masculinity is generally defined in terms much more positive and worthwhile to society, while attributes of women are more likely to be denigrated or not seen to be as important. This perception is changing, getting better, and varies from country to country and locations within any country, but it is still there and affecting us greatly. For example, what's a very common way to insult a man? You call him a p*ssy. A woman is seen as inferior. "You walk like a girl, you throw like a girl" you cry like a girl, you're a sissy, are you p*ssywhipped by your wife"......on and on. To be a man means you are not like a woman and you are in charge of her. So the men who are homophobic feel stripped of their masculinity and the superior status & control it brings if they would be relating sexually to a man. Their very identity, their idea of what it means to be a man, is jerked away from them and their response can be deadly (many gay men and transgender women are murdered in this way). This is even recognized by the law and used in court cases when such murders occur. @Gopi Passiflora should be aware of these realities inherent in our socialization process as he could encounter some terribly hostile responses from men in 2nd life he might encounter, should his 1st life gender become known while presenting as a woman.
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Yesterday I made a male alt and wandered SL a bit. This is all your fault @Gopi Passiflora .... grins
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You could consider taking the rest of you, and leaving your lazy butt behind. I'm in deep conversation with it atm, and have almost convinced it to come along. Unfortunately, I can't leave home without it.
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PET PEEVE: I'm having trouble getting my lazy butt over to a Blender lesson.
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It's how we're raised as boys/men, unfortunately. Yes, the discussion of why is likely outside the scope of this thread, but it boils down to the denigration of women
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Yes, with those who assume the opposite of their 1st life gender their relationships will likely include sexual relationships at some point. This has been my experience knowing many transgender individuals as well as those who don't consider they are transgender but simply like to experiment with presenting as their opposite 1st life gender. These sexual relationships affirm their chosen gender even more and is why it's so appealing.
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Is this on mainland? I quit working there due to people shoving big prims onto the land, covering it so I couldn't see to do any work. Big prims will now self-delete if they intersect with an avatar who does not own them, but it appears he's placing them when you're not around?
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PET PEEVE: After the discussions here, feeling wary about updating my Firestorm. Not understanding why it will be harder on our PC's now.
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You've stated many times you're just in SL for sex games, and that you choose to relate to people at deeper levels in open sim. So, since you asked about what you should be sharing here on your profile, I think you should state "I'm just here for sex-games and nothing deeper".
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Our profiles are not the be-all and end-all of interactions in SL, so I think you've asked a limited question. As does everything in life, relationships in SL progress, and we have to be aware of the complexity that can develop. And so there are no absolutes here, but instead we need to be sensitive to how each person feels along the way. Relationships, even if totally role-playing ones, change over time -- they are evolving, dynamic entities. Relationships, by definition, include the feelings of both parties. So my belief is that it's fine not to list your actual gender on your profile, but to also be sensitive to how this might affect another should your relationship grow closer.
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I'm really not responsible for other peoples emotions. If you don't want to get hurt, don't fall in love in here. You are not responsible for other people's emotions, true, but you can be sensitive to their emotions out of a desire to minimize pain. For example, if you notice someone starting to fall in love and you're not interested there are ways to discourage this before it goes too far.
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Phil, I am happy to see that you seem to grasp the definition of ethics (it involves the feelings and perspectives other people might have and does not only refer to ourselves). "Ethics examines the rational justification for our moral judgments; it studies what is morally right or wrong, just or unjust. In a broader sense, ethics reflects on human beings and their interaction with nature and with other humans, on freedom, on responsibility and on justice".
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Join us for our Monthly PILGRIMAGE to the astral lands of myth & legend. We begin at 9amSLT - This is a sacred dance & guided spirit flight journey w/Shambala & Maia Antarra dancing us [optional angelic theme] Satori (9,126,24)
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ok...I was wondering if it's clicking the link from within the forum that sometimes doesn't work for some people..
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https://screenrec.com/share/AJRQWrZtb5
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hmmm...try copypasting and inputting the link into another browser....or maybe even the same one that opens up from here..
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Just ignore mean and insensitive responses is my advice, Ian. They're probably just having bad gas this morning.
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Most of what you've mentioned here is what meditation teaches/enhances. Pet Peeve: I need to get back to my online meditation courses. Chanting helps, but meditation is also needed.
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Not the way I does it! \o/ Yes I wouldn't figure a down-to-earth woman such as yourself would do such a thing. And that's quite possibly a good thing.
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I need to postpone the class due to take place tomorrow the 11th. But join the group and let me know how you're doing with the first exercise -- send a note card inworld and I'll get back to you. secondlife:///app/group/b2042ca9-9b1d-ff97-f2b0-a27fecae87b3/about I'll post the first meeting in this spot asap.
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