[Looking for mesh monokini]

When you are down to so little coverage, just go naked!    What's the point of trying to cover such a tiny portion when most of your assets are uncovered already?

I suggest you contact the creator to see if they can custom create something for you.   Big boobs in RL require COSTLY custom creations...so, my guess it might be a bit costly to have this custom designed for your SL big boob.  Did I mention how costly custom creations are?    They probably need to be non-rigged mesh or scuplted add-on so you could adjust it  rather than a clothing texture that the appliers offer.

[Getting avatar into blender]

Check out the SL Creation Wiki  this might help.  Is an article listed by By Nalates Urriah  that might be helpful to you. http://wiki.secondlife.com/wiki/Clothing_Tutorials

[Exasperated by standard sizing.... question about mesh creation]

My too cents worth is designers need to go beyond the "standard sizing" someone just happned to decide should be standard.  These standards are FAR from standard AV sizes.  If you can't or won't alter your AV, which I refuse to do, then these "standard sizes" do not fit causing bad reviews, customer complaints, and in general a loss of revenue.

[Fewer creators and designers than ever]

Has to agree with you, there is absolutely no incentives for creators to create..  Everyone seems to want everything for free, which is well and good for the patron but sucks for the creator who may have to invest money into a creation.   Why should you create things for those who want it all free?

[White covering breats and under area]

Yes, is the default skin from the SL library that is used for all new accounts when they are created for modesty purposes.   If you want to get rid of it permanently, you will need to replace with a new skin.  Otherwise, use clothing that covers the "undies"

[Mesh land impact]

If it has lots of cyclinders, torus, or spheres shapes in the construction of the mesh, it very well indeed could be 77 prims or higher. You might be able reduce it some if you change it from convex hull to none when linked to another prim.  Is there any sculpts linked to this item?  If so, unlink them and check the LI.  Some of the older sculpted objects and run your LI off the scale.

You could import the .dae file into blender (or another modeling program)  and try to reduce some of the geometry.  If someone created this for you as a custom job, contract them to see if they can proved you with a lower LI cost mesh.  BUT, be aware whne you start reducing the geometry, not only will it impact the LI but how the mesh may look.

[Stop whining about the ads please]

Solution--Stop reading/replying  to the threads that whine about the ads. 

[Standard Sizing, Cupcakes, & You!]

Likes mesh accessories.  Hates mesh clothes because the standard sizes someone created out of the blue air only fit a certain body type. Doesn't buy them, won't wear them, won't change my shape for them.

[I get bored]

Only time I  see people leave for something or someone else, is if I am boring, if we have nothing in common, see life differently.  If that happens, yeah  people are gonna drift apart.  If people are leaving you to fend for yourself consistently, maybe you need to ask them why .  See if there is a pattern you an come up with then change it.

Lots of places out there in SL.  Plenty of RP and Dance Places.  I think someone mentions Builder's Brewery, which is a great place to learn how to build stuff in SL.  You could just go to the destinations area and start TPing around to see what you find as well.

Worse comes to worse go play you XBox for a few days.

[A New, Improved way of Presenting these Fairs is needed]

The Hair Fair is always a lag fest disaster.  If it is not lagging, the sims are full. What would really help the Hair Fair  is to extend the time from two weeks to at least six to allow time for everyone to access the sims.  Two weeks is simply not enough time. I honestly don't need new hair.  I don't want the "just lays there mesh hair".   I must be pretty vain cause I want others to see all of  me and not some headless bald girl on non-mesh viewers.

Sends anti-lag prayers to Hair Fair attendees.

 

[Where can I find this hair style in second life's market place?]

You also might go check out Emotions in-world.  I am not inworld atm so try a search of Emo and narrow it to shopping.  It is spelled funky.  They have a wide array of styles for men and women.

[How Many Skins and Shapes and How Often Do You Change?]

Never change my shape, although occasionally I will tweak it bits.  Skins, I generally do not change...I buy the Fat Pack or whatever they are called with all the make-up options so if a skin is changed it is simply for makeup purposes.

If  am going to do major changes, I just hop on one of my alts.  All look different, has a different shape, different brand skin, eye color, etc.  That is how I mix up my SL.