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The first male av I ever made (I was less than a month into SL) went to a jazz club to dance and met a woman who was looking for love. It made me feel very uncomfortable as I could see she was projecting her own imagination of someone who would love her onto my avatar. I stopped dancing with strangers in my male av after that one dance. I saw the woman when I was back in my female avatar and she had found some dom who was willing to enslave her. My heart cried for her as I saw her happily kneeling beside him, although she appeared to be happy. Should I have told her that I was not a man? I don't know. I don't think it would have made her feel any better. I just wanted to dance and I'd thought it would be safer to be the man (I was very timid when I first came to SL). Then I learned that I could sign in as both avs at the same time and I went dancing with myself. I occasionally use one of my male av these days to go listen to music when I don't feel like talking but I never interact with anyone anymore. When I get IMs, (it's not only women that get approached by hopefuls) I tell them right away that I'm a woman in RL and that usually ends the conversation.
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When I ponder whether people are innately good or evil, I am forced to conclude that it's not a dichotomy at all. People are good and evil. I think most people want to think of themselves as good and will behave that way as long as it's not in conflict with their own best interests. I know that I am constantly struggling between what's good for me and what's best for everyone. Some people struggle with that more than others. Then there are some people who've become all twisted up inside and you can't always tell from the outside that they are. But even those damaged people may have a spark of goodness still. My ex husband was extraordinarily kind to insects, never killing them, always making that extra effort to escort them out of the house.
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You take good care of yourself Lindal, we will miss you more than we know. Glad you're not closing the door. If you embrace your health and well being half as well as you embraced SL, you'll be fine.
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I have a bunch of her stuff, can't remember where I picked it up or if it's there anymore. She meant for all her work to be free to anyone so she made everything with full perms but some bits became no mod somehow in the transfer/opening of boxes.
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My alt is giving up this sweet Vic in Whither http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Whither/98/165/30
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Petitions, Letter of complaint
kali Wylder replied to Ezzie Alpha's topic in General Discussion Forum
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I'm an alt too. But I don't think it really matters that much. I've never tried to hide it. My original av retired both in world and here in the forums back in 2012 or so.
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It's so tame that I rarely post anything anymore. I drop in once a week or so, scan the topics on the first page of the GD, buzz through the pet peeves thread and leave, usually with nothing to say before I go. Then I browse the "The all-in-one Home Furnishings Topic! " in the belli forum to see if there's any kind of deal I might want to check out and Whoosh! I'm gone again.
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Yes. That was it. I'd forgotten that that particular alt was a bot. I guess this change in rules was a result of that grid wide bot invasion cataloging and publishing all those private details and causing an uproar.
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Some landmarks were from old houses of mine but some were for cute little parks that I had landmarked. and thanks
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oh, that might be it. I'm not sure if she's one or not, have to check. But the thing is she used to be allowed, that's why she logged out from there.
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New peeve. I logged in a seldom used alt and she was kicked out of my Belli home because she's not allowed there. Tried going to some other places in Belli and same thing. Is that a new thing not allowing basic members to visit Belli any more?
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peeved that the history of SL exhibit consists of billboards of text that never rezz clearly enough to be read
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-Bellisserians Show Off Your Home and Garden-
kali Wylder replied to Blush Bravin's topic in Linden Homes
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SLB20 Opening Ceremony Lab Gab - Announcements?
kali Wylder replied to Love Zhaoying's topic in General Discussion Forum
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Happy Pride Everyone! and here's a heartwarming message from the potus:
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My my! People are certainly in a sensitive kind of mood today! Where might I find the "other thread" that has everyone so riled up? Or has it been closed already?
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Is this new round of mentors a good idea?
kali Wylder replied to Sid Nagy's topic in General Discussion Forum
I used to really like helping people back when I was hosting. I'm here so rarely now though and I've forgotten half of what I used to know and the other half of stuff I knew is mostly obsolete, so I doubt if I'd be much help these days. -
Wonderful news! You could post it here, the other pet thread.
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Oh hell yes! -- Pet Delights!
kali Wylder replied to Coffee Pancake's topic in General Discussion Forum
Latest test results, climbed up another 2% since last time. Feeling hopeful.