So sorry this has been a long time waiting to be answered ,however ,my land was returned to me (now sold ,officially ) I'd like to thank everyone who commented and tried so very hard to help ...the warning here ...even when teaching someone how to buy and sell land ,put the price of the land at a ridiculously high price ,this will keep you 'land bot '' free ..Once again thankyou to everyone ,with your helpfulness ...Cleo