I know it's old but I wanted to chime as I see it a lot in people's profiles.
I would love to sit down and tell these people, "You can't fly, teleport, change your DNA at will in real life, so why is verifying your voice that important?" SLex if is the goal then let got of any notion of reality, don't fall in love like a simp, I would recommend them make an alt and make that their ideal SLex partner, But if they want real love then I would highly suggest seeking spiritual guidance on that because the "professional" love advice that's put out today will totally set people up for a bad relationship.