WOW OKAY IM BACK - the solution was to get my avatar back to my ghost - it took a freinds help but got it done - and I found the best way to log back on during the problem was to just keep attempting each time I got the time answer - AND I never waited for the time - I did notice each time I logged on that the loading bar looked like it was loading - so I dont know what that was about
I was hoping once the loading bar was fulll It would log me on - but that didint happen
HUGZZZZ to you all