Thanks a bunch everyone, I am trying on a mountain of demos. Discovered how much that worn brow shape can alter the overall mesh head shape in that area, I am not very good at the whole shape editing thing but I like something of my own if that makes any sense. Been using the base shape that comes with the Ryn head and slowly making progress, wish these things had more sliders though...
Another discovery and worry has been, Mesh bodies and skin. I am going for Maitreya (I think you spell it that way), sticking to the demo for now, not going to buy anything until I am convinced I have it all figured out. But here is my new worry, would the skin of the mesh body match that of the head with all the different stores and brands? I would hate to get a skin I love for the head only to find out later that I can''t get anything matching for the body.
So fare, skin wise I am leaning towards anything bare, preferably with no eyebrows option too, as I understand that there are likely more flexible and better ways of going about those than them as part of the skin. Have yet to touch those monolid things mentioned too but they sound promising, provided they can match the skin.