Okay, here's a weird, I'm sure, response (part of the weirdness is replying to a 3 day old post, but only a part): I like feeling sexy/spicy/whatever. Also I'm asexual. I don't mean I don't have sex in SL, I mean I do not have sex, period. I don't want it, I'm not "biologically programmed for sex", and, a lot of the time, I find sex depicted on film or the like to be either hilarious or boring (and, depending, icky).
"If sex didn't exist, we could never feel sexy." I'm aware people have sex, I'm aware sex exists but sex doesn't really "exist" for me other than as a concept.