HazelEnglish

...and then i buy it, and then that will be mine, as long as I keep paying premium? (or do I also have to pay additonal each month?)

Shouldn't chatting amongst ourselves about a 'C*ck shop' be called something like 'Chaturbating'?

I have given up a 1024 houseboat to try out Newbrook. And got given a 512 size house, which is fine. But am I able to somehow use the remaining 512 space I have left in SL, and which is included in my premium membership? If so how do I do that? Thanks in advance for any tips/tutorials/guidance?

yep....but who wants their man to have one with bubbles in it?? (although that minty one tastes rather good)!!

I really like this....but sorry to sound like a noobie...but what is BOATAOM? Is it a store?

Absolutely. And everyone should use SL in the way they want, and is meaningful to them. I personally feel a bit uncomfortable looking too much younger in SL than I am in RL. But I am not suggesting for one second other people should feel the same way... 🙂

Not at all I don't mind any feedback. Good and bad / complimentary or harsh. It is afterall just a pixelated avatar (it's not really me. LOL). So I don't mind hearing all and every opinion, I find them all of equal value. (although I do find it easy to work out from all the comments which are coming from a male / female persepctive - lol And I find that interesting) . And thanks for your time taken to feedback ❤️

Thanks - but mature skins that provide all that addiitonal softness do not exist. Or if they do I cannot find them? Please share if you know of any?

I have looked everywhere. And cannot find any decent skins that look more mature. So if you know of any specifically...do please let me know / give me the SLURL. I cannot find any of the types of skins you suggest exisit. The only place is POEMA - and that's the skin I am wearing. So let me know of any specific other ones. I challenge you

Yes - that is where my skin is from. LOL

Thanks Marigold. And by the way - the sweater and leggings, free from COCO. In their free gifts stand. (not sure I am allowed to share that kind of info in forums. But hey great quaility free clothes. super duper)

In the land settings - there is an option called SHOW. It doesnt seem to do anything. I expected it would somehow highoight all the things owned by me in my Linden Home? But doesn't? Or am i doing something wrong?

When you say 'Smile Filter' - no idea what you mean? What is that? Also - that image above, still to me looks like a (very) young woman, but just with a frown and a few crows feet,. For ME an an older look has to be more than just some 'addons' around the eyes. And i do like IZZIES stuff. Great for small enhancments. But what I need - it needs to be a complete skin. Preferably both full head AND matching body. But impossible to find - thats what I mean. (And i am guessing this is the same for men?) But if you know of some as you suggest you do...please share, as I'd love to try them. But as it stands, I cannot find - either in world or in market place any full face/head skins (preferably also with a matching body skin) that is a typical (or slighly above average looking) middle aged woman. Only ones I find are 'charicatures of older women' - such as comedy old people, or witches, hags, or that sort of thing. Nothing 'normal'.

What she said 🖕 ... But I can see I am looking older than mid 40s. I think the hair is not helping.... so going to try with different hair styles too. I'll keep at it.

awwww - she clearly has 'bagged' a smooth talking fella. Well done her.

So - I have done another photo using her below....added a smile. Does everyone still think I look like I am in late 60s, having had a bad drug habit??. hope not. (LOL) But 100% happy to get the feedback (bad and good) it really helps me to learn to style my avatar. Just so wished there were good 'Age 40s' skins. But there are NONE. Which is so frustrating given I have been told MOST users of SL are in their late 30s and 40s. I feel fake wearing the skin of a twenty+ something. And I don't want to look like 'Wiked Witch of the West' either.

Ha - that is funny....just now wondering who you mean. Presume 'Daniella'? Lol

Ha. not going to be shot down. i asked for honest opinions. In fact I agree with you And I'd prefer to age down my face a tiny bit more. But can't find anything to do that. The next step down in skins and shapes seems to be the 30 plus glamour girls. Nothing at all for the 'mid to late 40s' I was trying to go for.

Could you all help me. I am trying to create an avatar that represents a specific age. To help me know if I am getting close, could you all type in the comments how old you think my avatar looks. Your feedback and honesty would really be appreciated. Thank you.

Thank you - and great job on your Avatar. Definitely the kind of realistic more mature style I am looking to go for.

That sounds a good idea. Do you have a link to 'Izzies' or is that a store on marketplace?

Hello all. I have recently joined Second Life. Loving it. I've learned the basics. And now properly starting to work on customising my Avatar. But being the 'wrong side of 40', I am really finding it hard to find any skins that reflect my age group. I am feeling a little bit fake/disengenous wearing a skin that looks more like a 20/30 year old. So does anyone know any creators or stores that provide good quality 'older female' skins. Preferably BOM. I'm not looking to be a caricature (I’ve seen some of the 'jokey' skins, that are more like offensive 'old person stereotypes' . And I am not looking to become 'granny grotbags' either.) But just trying to find a nice skin that properly reflects my age. Still attractive, realistic, etc. And good quality (like the quality you find at Not Found, Session, and Mila.) If you have any suggestions, please let me know in your reply to this post. Thanks in advance Hazel

Thanks for coming back with reply so quickly. And yes, I'll try that. So to clarify. I'll make a note of all the numbers for my body in the 'Edit Appearance'. then add the Not Found Skin, and then change back the numbers for the body to what I had noted? (and then save that shape as a personal version?).

Hello all. I am newish, and my first post, and so please excuse my 'noobness' if this is a ridiculously simple question? But I am just starting to build my own Avatar, having been wearing the default 'Bitsy' for a months while I get to grips with the very basics of SL. Anyway - I am trying the KUPRA body, and the Skinny Shape that it comes with (and the Toffee Body Skin option). I am using a GENUS Free head for now (with BOM turned on and my alphas deleted). And I have today been browsing the NOT FOUND stored for skins for GENUS. And with each Not Found Demo is a BOM Skin (which I can add no problem), A Not Found Brow (again I can add no Problem) and a Not Found shape for that particular skin. But when I wear that shape, it gives my face the exact same look as the DEMO advert picture (which is what I want) , but it also then changes my KUPRA Body Shape to something looking ridiculous. I then tried adding the KUPRA body shape back, and that returns my body shape to normal/what it was before, but then the face shape no longer looks like it does in the NOT FOUND DEMO. Am I doing something wrong? How can you wear a SKIN shape for a face/head, but not have it at the same time alter your BODY shape? Or is this just not possible? And it is either one or the other? And if you are buying a head skin (from somewhere like Not Found) why do they have it alter your body shape anyway? If anyone can help with my frustration, that would be very kind of you? Thanks in advance.