Summing this topic up - The RL issue
SL helped me. I was in an abusive relationship. First SL started as harmless fun whilst I was curious, it did lead to some rl influencing which was bad. I kind of go addicted to its rl influence on me.
However... despite this i was able to earn a substantial amount in sl.
2ndly - My abuser got worse + her family. One day I decided to create a virtual person I would keep it inworld with after several awful date i just bumped into someone putting a board up. A relation had just killed themselves and i had no family support
Next thing i knew a year had gone by we met , she was the same in both worlds we had spoken almost daily on discord,
3 years in we are moving in together doing stuff in sl together and rl together no secrets, it really fixed my life - Religious or not Adultery or not I'm happier for it