[LGBTQAI+ friends?]

I am not sure about  transmale areas.  There are still some lesbian places like Lesbian Teahouse and a few others that are lesbian only , but a lot of lesbian communities and areas  welcome transgender women (or MTF).  I am a transwoman in SL and as long as I behave myself and most times keep my stuff covered I am good.

[AO for Alantori david bento mesh body]

Someone can correct me but I think you need a bento ao

[~Looking for a girl best friend group~]

One of the dating sims in SL has a friend section

[what is ur hangout place?]

On 12/8/2020 at 3:03 PM, CaerolleClaudel said:

IMO, SL is far better than RL, especially considering that I have spent my whole life in rural flyover country in the US (the 'Bible Belt'), where intolerance of pretty much everything beyond conservative white Christianity is the rule.

Honestly, those couple times at Fogbound, out of many times, was about the only time I have been harassed, and that was by patrons, not staff. Then again, I have always to the extent possible only frequented female-only, queer places, or places that were mostly female and the men were polite and well-behaved. That is a lot easier in SL than in the aforementioned RL in which I am enmeshed. If I lived in one of the largest cities in the county instead of the largest small town in the country, I could probably do that IRL, too, but for example lesbian bars and queer clubs in general had declined quite a lot even before the pandemic. Not that life is just bars and clubs, I think of Provincetown and areas in the big cities where you can exist in communities with very large queer contingencies. SL is like being able to immediately go to a place like that no matter where you are at the moment.

Probably the most grief I have taken is when men hit on me without reading my profile (first word: 'Lesbian') and then get mad when I talk to them politely and finally insist that no, I am not interested, I am gay, when they get to the point of wanting to have sex. I think they feel I have led them on or something. I have from time-to-time just immediately said 'Lesbian' when they said hi, lol, but that seems to lead to an argument, too. 🙄

I feel you.   I am a transgirl in SL and guys don’t read my profile.  I quit explaining until we are alone and they get surprised.     But i like to hang out in bare sun beach or Ku’lani beach

[Who are you? We want to know]

I am a bi girl in real life In my 30’s but started wearing an Aero  ck after a gf bought it for me in SL.  So now  I am a transgender woman in SL.  I enjoy it.  I meet a lot of girls in SL now than I did before

[new to the game!]

Whats lqbt meet-ups?  Is the same thing as hookups?

[Looking for fun people]

Depends on what you want to do as fun

[A friend or a pretender?]

I can be the pretender and bash you, start rumors and tell all kinds of lies.  As a friend I can tell you to avoid the pretender,  talk you up,  your the best person in SL,  your all that and a bag of chips.

[How NOT to make friends]

any random friend requests i turn down. or ones that start like this....

Wanna F@@k or  I want sex

[3 Rooms Available on Adult Land must be 18yrs or older a must!!]

you have three rooms available.. your not asking for any linden, but  anything would help

[1 2 3s of Making friends on SL]

Majority of the friends on my list are friends I have bumped pixels with In SL. I have been the side girl to some, met in roleplay areas or on beaches.   Then we continued on with the friendship.    

 

[MALE playing female? Is it frowned upon?]

I am a girl in RL and have a trans woman avatar.  It works.  Have fun

[Anyone encountered really mean people on here?]

Not necessarily mean but like to start drama,  self centered, crybabies, whiners,  and liars

[Stud looking to meet cool fems]

Sorry the pic there looks like a muscular male av

[Stud looking to meet cool fems]

Stud lesbian is that the same thing as a transgender male?? 

[Mesh head - before & after]

I hate about mesh heads that if you don’t use the default shape then you have to mess around getting to look right

[Seeking HIM!]

Wait a darn minute here..you’re saying there is more than sex in SL... this is a conspiracy and you are all in on it

[Seeking HIM!]

Raises hand...I am the troll...more of an orc though

[What’s The Story Behind Your Avatar Name?]

I used a random name generator online with an option for cyberpunk and picked a first name and last.. Cammy Ducante.    The sl username rushingaround was random

[Whats in a name??]

Whose sl name is different than the name you have displayed??  For example my sl name is rushingaround but the name I have displayed in sl is Cammy Ducante

[Like Pinocchio]

There is a girl I got close to in SL Who said she was a news reporter for her local tv station.  She eventually sent me her facebook page.  After looking, it wasnt what I was expecting.  Not much info and a bunch of friends from all over.  Didnt make sense and I think it was a fake page

[People still use classic avatars instead of bento heads and bodies?]

1 hour ago, Holger Gilruth said:

I tryed bento mesh and body but it is complicated, you need to take hours to fit it, you redo it for every clothing you change sorry i was going back to normal avatars after 1 week and i miss nothing. Change Avatar in Seconds, redo nothing it just works

Some of the mesh is a pain in the a$$.  You get a head and try and match skin.   Why cant the head people and body people compare notes or something.  

[Like Pinocchio]

Without any names, What’s the craziest or weirdest story someone ever told you about real life?

[People still use classic avatars instead of bento heads and bodies?]

I wear maitreya  and  got the free head from Genus and it looks really good.  I have a few alts that are still system avatars.