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  1. 2 hours ago, meatjuice said:

    I found this ideology every hurtful. its like you are asking them so are you more boy or more girl.... 

    I doubt that's what her intention is. She's asking what being nonbinary means to the OP in particular. A lot of people identify as nonbinary without fully understanding what that entails, so she's really just trying to figure out where the OP stands. ( That's my interpretation, but I could still be wrong. >.< )


    For the OP:

    Luckily for you, SL caters to a very large BDSM scene. I personally am new to the lifestyle, and have found a lot of really good people that have helped me in discovering what I like, what I dislike, etc.. I think it'd be wise to figure out what exactly you're looking for in a Pet. Their experience level would be a very good place to start. You might also take the advice of other dominants in the community. Digging in to this lifestyle is a whole lot easier when you have mentors by your side. If you want my own personal opinion, I'd recommend learning about yourself. Figure out what makes you tick, your likes, dislikes, etc.. And then figure out what you want in a submissive/pet. Don't jump in to a relationship thinking that that's the only way to learn. 

    As far as specific places.. I'd look at BDSM hangouts, ideally those catering to what you're in to. ( Which I assume is the DD/lg community ) There's lots of them out there, it's just a matter of looking. Feel free to contact me inworld. I'd be happy to show you a few! 


    Best of luck,

    Esme Emerson ( luxxyluxxy )

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  2. 12 hours ago, bigmoe Whitfield said:

    Yeah you'll have to wait for some one at LL to look at hte ticket and it being a holiday,  you might not get help until some one see's it in their queue.


    Scheduled - Phone and chat support will be unavailable Wednesday, January 1st, 2020. Ticket submissions will still be available at this time.


    So there could be hope, just wait and be patient, since this is a small company with a small support staff :)

    I thought that may be the case. I'll just see what happens over the next few days! Thank you both for your input, and have a very happy new year!

  3. I've already submitted a ticket. I did so on Sunday. I'm wondering if there's any way around doing all of that as I haven't received a response from LL yet. 

  4. Alright, so! I have been on SL for about 10 months or so, and when I registered I signed up with my correct birthdate. At that point, I was 17. I turned 18 on the 28th of December, and have already tried contacting SL support, but have yet to get a response. I'm assuming it's with all the holidays, but I can't be certain. I wanted to know if there's anything I can possibly do to finally be able to update my maturity ratings, or if its simply a waiting game at this point. Thanks!

  5. On 12/12/2019 at 4:54 AM, BelindaN said:

    What's your time zone Luxxy?

    Happy to help you out in any way, especially with shopping!!

    I live in Central Standard! I’d love to have you help me out with shopping or what have you.

    Just 11 days away from my 18th, then I’m home free! Haha. 

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  6. On 12/5/2019 at 8:12 AM, JudeConnors said:

    My SL partner and I own an internet radio station. We run a small entertainment SIM in SL with the radio station studio, a shop, a bowling alley/skate rink with playable arcade games and table games (as well as bowling, ofc), a fairground with fun games that give out cool lil prizes, a planetarium, an amphitheater arena for live singers and other small bands/acts and a club that is on the Moon. Come hang with us there when you can!


    Feel free to friend me inworld or send me an IM anytime: JudeConnors Resident

    I'll definitely shoot you an IM. ❤️

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  7. Being that I am new to SL, I can't honestly say I've taken part in SL dating. I have done long distance relationships in the past that haven't really worked out because, like many people before me have said, communication is super important and those relationships just didn't have it. 

    I think I'd like to have someone like a partner in crime or other half, but I doubt I'd take it in to RL. But who knows? Things change, and some people might just be worth it. To the OP: I'd highly recommend doing whatever makes you comfortable. Don't rush in to an online relationship, and really take your time in figuring out what you and the other person have in common. Some of the best relationships I've ever seen started out with the two being friends first. Best of luck!

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  8. Hello all! I joined SL a couple of months ago by recommendation of a friend, though because I don't turn 18 until next month, there's very little if anything at all for me to amuse myself with. So I figured in the mean time, I could get some friends to talk to while I chill out in my cozy little g-rated sims and sandboxes, and when the time comes for me to finally get out of the bubble-wrapped edition of SL, I'll maybe have some people to guide me through the game a bit. (The aforementioned friend of mine no longer plays the game, but had recommended it when I mentioned wanting an online game to play. Just an fyi for those of you wondering, "Luxxy, why not just have them talk to you?") 

    I'm not hard to get along with, and I like hanging out with all sorts of people. So just IM me in-game, or respond here and I'll message you! I'm pretty laid back and friendly, and I have a good sense of humor. Super sarcastic. The package has been clearly marked, haha.

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