Will Blakewell

It's good to establish compatibilities with people when you meet them. No friends I'd keep would send a TP without a personal IM asking if I want to go. DJ (hostess) TP's .. yeah no, they aren't looking for friends they are looking for customers. I don't mind a romantic partner sending an IM right away, but I don't have more than one of those at a time so I think I can handle one IM and tell her I'm trying to sort through what I logged into. A stable person will understand that. Any other IM's I might ignore until I get to them or tell them the same thing briefly. If I ran a business... I wouldn't keep (real) friends that couldn't understand that time is needed to attend to it. I really enjoy dancing by the way, my girl and I go out often. The trick is finding places with good realistic dances that can fit the music and not make you look like a flailing clown having seizures. A lot of popular music venues have terrible dance options.