Thank you for your awesome insight. I guess I've always been very open about my RL info. (It was never frowned about in my circles. and I've been around ~10 yrs. If anything, I feel my first group of friends and I were so diverse, internationally, that we chatted on voice constantly, talking about RL.) It feels somewhat disconnected to be anything but... but I'm trying to be open to a new frame of mind since my new guy seems private and I respect that.
Yup @RaeLeeH , I thought exactly that to myself. He could be a 50 year old woman.... Can I accept that? Yes, if I never know! lol. I have enough chemistry with this person, that I don't want to ruin it. My curiosity gets the best of me sometimes, I suppose.