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Emz Evergarden

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  1. It all depends if they not logging on It can be do to first life they got family to take care of , Or they have to work more hours to pay the bills , Some people do start over do to something that happen that may happen to them but was not you just they don't wanna hurt anyone but they can't go back to that life what happen to them some people can not all can they may have to start over on another one. They can't log in because they have an illness they are taking care of might be hard for them. They have taken care of a loved one. Some people are quiet know one is perfect we are imperfect beauty's just have to take them for who they are be their for them not force but give them space.
  2. Only thing I can suggest is to mingle with people making friends on role play sim. People like to get into character. Some places may require training to help you with the training you might get paid but some places just do it out of fun. You may get paid out donations or weekly it depends on the place but do to covid have to be a bit reasonable make it adorable. But I think if you just did yourself at first find a uniform and look in to the experience. You can make it affordable for people just do it out of role play and experience. Only places I think would pay for this kind of thing : Gor places , A family hospital , Love Mana body's , Mama alpha nurse .Doctor , Wid wife doctor. Try to look for places and groups tags : hospital, Home care , Family doctor and group.
  3. 1950s sim use to have hospital but the sim is log gone. Only thing I can suggest is mingle with people making friends on role play sim people like to get in to character. Some place may require training help you with the training you might may get paid but some places just done out of fun. You may get paid out donation or weekly it depends on the place but do to covid have to be bit reasonable make it adorable. But I think if you just did yourself at first find a uniform and look in to the experience. You can make affordable for people just do it out of role play and experience. Only places I think would pay for this kind of thing : Gor places , A family care hospital , Doctor office , Love Mana body's , Mama alpha nurse .Doctor , Wid wife doctor ,Hospital&Birthing Center. Try to look for places and groups tags : hospital, Home care , Family doctor.
  4. The video's way some extra touch of inspiration pass along for each and your own be what you wanna be.
  5. I have some but its from secretsinlace. Bebe has some like in sl and few other places. Sheer stockings make the legs shine.
  6. Work freely and speak freely at your own pace. Adult cage club teaches new comers people coming back to sl shows how to use tip jar and pole it's free can use self use no fee. You can ask one of the helpers if you need help. Starters places: Sexy nude beach , adult cage club , sweet domination club , house of v. Can even do Fetish modeling , Gogo Dancer , burlesque. But at any place new to good to read the fine print and the rules and so on to see how the vibe of the place is how people treat others. You want to be in a good vibe tribe Atmosphere where you feel at home. Each place is different, try it if not for you walk slowly away just say thanks just things came up and have to go. Go to places to be freely to find friendship of companionship. As many gave you advice above really great. . The classy to casual erotica in the lifestyle places good start also. My friend started at the trophy room more women are freely to be themself not really a selling point but can give bit enlightenment and get you to the upper in things she learned photography , boudoir , burlesque ,Grow on fine art & literature as aConnoisseur , Classy intelligent conversation mixing and mingle with people , Finding the right people at right places at the right time. Or you can try the auctions but find ones that allow you to be you and have a say in who you pick what both agree on. Not everyone at auctions is looking for sha bang bang but conversation some go dance with exchange of education in the lifestyle, taken in hand lead the way companion, emotionally invested before getting hooked. I had a friend did slave auction a lad bought her poster board for 10k he wanted to get to know her win her over first , go dancing , saved her from a mess , guided her took her hand cherished her for a week was not about pixel bang just good company , conversation and the adventure. If you wanna take further relationships that up those who for each and Their own. Sl is whatever you make it Just have fun you don’t have to do things you don’t feel like doing but set boundaries Trust is earned with energy shown can say no if not for you. Someone should respect you as person as goes both ways not go after over your body even if adult and sex connection and attraction. Just because your women deserve respect as goddesses you are, they should be glad to be part of your temple. Little Classy to casual with erotica dress to please you first for you but embrace it. Sheer lace , and dots , Hats and gloves and frilly things little art to it whatever comes to your mind what inspires you. Keeping to the imagination showing very little, not too much , don't give them everything or they take it and run , let them think and slowly work the way let them win you over if they are willing to have this gem. Don't have to beg or chase, be discrete but open, use your mind and your body to let the energy set you free.Don't have to put everything in profile you can be very discrete as well put in note card put in a blog keeping bit positive and alive. Little inspiration ,Art of seduction , Luxury & self seduction , erotica.
  7. Many Lads go to Moderate to Adult erotica mature places ,Sometimes General places. Open more door go the the distance. You don't have to do anything you don't feel like doing. You don't have to go that place that night go some where unexpected but you can go see for yourself you can travel to each place to see what is going on. Show up beforehand, try to work way in and mingle so that you get comfortable with the place. You can derender what you don't wanna see, it's your sl but sometimes you gotta have a little fun and have some wine, some good laughs, enjoy life why you can. Even if places have themes does mean you have to bare down to your undergarments you can wear classy lace gown , Cocktail dress with a slit , Sheer gloves , Lace hats , 1950s , 1960s to today era cover the body knickers with petticoat skirt or with a sheer shawl. You don't have to fall into the theme, just be yourself and still wear things and have fun. I use to be a bit shy but I wear vintage things sorta like Dita Von Teese but as myself in my own expression you can still keep it on keep to the imagination you don't have to do what others do but stay in character just have fun let things flow.
  8. Music , Other arts music atmosphere. Look when they have events and time zones you can show up. Weekend and after 5 pm weekdays when things are open but look for a time zone. Best thing is just look for places, tags and titles you might find what you're looking for. I just go flow where the music and the universe takes me to unexpected places. Each place is different in its own way. Good idea to read info when landing some place will have a dress code just classy to casual or come as you are. Most places are also on theme and era not all are. Best of luck. Branagh's Jazz - Romantic Jazz Club http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/West Egg/207/38/23 Club 511 - Adult Jazz Club ( Has nice music but their some semi nudity to nudity /Erotica. ) http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Amara/225/223/907 Club Noir Swing and Jazz club http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Badger/16/155/3678 Nat's Jazz Club @ Detroit City http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Detroit City/56/187/22 The Blue Note Retro Jazz Lounge http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/The Blue Note/243/196/22 Sphynx Jazz Club http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Sphynx Forest/133/174/61 Moonlight Jazz Cave http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Cayman/189/170/22 Trophy's Jazz Elysee, http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Trophy/71/82/1451 Flamingo Bay presents IL Fenicottero Ballroom http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Stella/29/192/25 !SL Jazz Club! http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Resembool/243/115/3803 The good vibe lounge ( they play about old to new music ) http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Bound To Excite/76/116/2096 Love Kats II ( Different music all kinds) http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Love Kats II/127/124/1200 Cafe Musique( Different music of all kinds) http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Sandness/70/203/22 Chinatown New York 1920s-1940s http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Time Portal/159/122/1930 The Trocadero Club in 1940s http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Time Portal/23/137/3997 The Mercury Room Owl's Hollywood Jazz Lounge 20s 30s 40s 50s http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Cerveza Island/107/204/652 Iokei Dance Pavilion, ( To take a sweetie for a dance ) http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Iokei/165/38/26 THE BIRDCAGE sway to jazz http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Iokei/58/138/26 Wine O'Clock Jazz House (but its some how gone sadly ) Wine & Jazz http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Derby/95/21/28 THE JAZZ HOUSE http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/The Bahamas/92/159/557 Coffee & Wine Bar ( More for taking a sweetie for a dance) http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Anaconda/241/66/22 Romance in the Clouds Ballroom & Restaurant ( Adult but has different smooth music ) http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Anaconda/219/77/3381 ~ The Sable Club ~ ( Adult ) ( Different music ) http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Floris/175/124/24 **THE PHARMACY** SPEAKEASY BURLESQUE & SWING MUSIC CLUB** ( Swing music vintage music ) http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Nova Coast/229/204/22 SAVOY BALLROOM - 596 Lenox Ave in Swing Town ( Swing music and old rock ) http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Creations Park/36/51/28 Secret Island Music ( All Different kind of music ) http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Bobs secret Island/209/44/21 Bailey's Music Lounge ( Tunes Of All Genre - Blues, Country, Pop, Rock, Soul, Ballads, Reggae etc. ) http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Darling Heights/210/200/32 Gooseberry Estates ( Bring your sweetie ) ( different Music with and parks exploring with romance. ) http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Gooseberry Estates/118/117/29 secondlife:///app/group/18560238-ef5f-3c97-d602-d9fc9e3bc14e/about La Dolce Terra ( Take your sweetie and explore different music ) http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/La Dolce Terra/157/187/30 Luciano's - Bistro & Lounge - Smooth jazz and swing music ) http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Marblehead/43/137/23 Butter Bar and Bistro ( different music different things to do. ) http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Butter/109/98/24 Coney Island Dance (You want be little silly and laughter just good old time ) ( Different music) http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Baileya/83/128/21 Hypnotic Romance ( romance music ) http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Hypnotic Romance/82/114/23 Secret Love - Intimate Romantic Valentine Dine & Dance Ballroom http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/West Palm Resort/214/206/1201 Love Kats I ( Romance and beach different music ) Bring your sweetie http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Love Kats/127/125/27 Midsummer Night ( Vintage all music and romance ) Bring your sweetie http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Moochie/171/199/23 The Willows ( Different music ) http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Donatelli/105/191/3752 Adagio Gardens - Old Town ( different music place to explore ) Bring a sweetie http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Adagio Gardens/173/126/2891 Templemore Cove Different Music and art ( being your sweetie ) http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Templemore Cove/176/50/33 London for Ara different Music Romance and art explore . Bring your sweetie. http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Drakaren/25/180/24 La Perla - Old Italy, Romantic and dance and exploring ( Bring your sweetie.) [P]eapod Estates ( Different music , Explore and themes. ( Bring a sweetie ) http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Rowling/87/143/51 Volli's Music Station Different music with romance. http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Roseraie/200/168/2000 SKY MUSIC PARK, ( Different music in the park ) http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Port Victoria Sound/65/115/4001 Cats love music( Romantic art of music ) http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Fareyth/59/34/22 The Velvet indie, alt, eclectic, rock, new wave, techno, punk, garage, goth, dance, pop, jazz, country http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Odyssey/10/232/22 Royal Opera Art culture theater romantic Royal Opera Garnier music museums cinema beauty couple dance http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Oceanea/111/132/3600 BALLROOM PERSONA, 70s,'80s,'90s, Love songs. http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Chalmun/45/62/3230 Rockin' Robin 50s 60s 70s 80s 90s Classic Rock Pop Retro Rockabilly Rock http://maps.secondlife.com/secondlife/Rockin Robin/135/198/79 The Wise Choice Coffee House & Gallery Jazz music ( Bring your sweetie and enjoy the music and romance ) The Wise Choice Coffee House & Gallery, Urcho Archo (78, 176, 23) - Moderate | ELYSION | ( One time group fee) ( Have Music and get together weekdays and weekends ) The Trophy Room - CMNF one time group fee ( Have music and get together on weekdays and weekends ) [ the chamber society ] one time group fee ( have Music and get together weekend and weekdays ) BDSM Events and Information ( D/s Place you can find music and romance find what its your vibe. ) { Corruption } One time group fee. ( Music and get together weekends and weekdays. ) These places will have free days from time to time every other weekend or weekday in the week.
  9. Everyone has story why they are here but to open that book yes it takes bit of trust and exchange of energy with feelings. Don' have to focus on trying to find people let it find it for you flow with life be with peace with yourself and things. Take breaks if you must and come back when you are ready. Not looking for anything in particular embracing the adventure good clean fun. I don't really role play I just get in to character. I beta test and do little decoration help people when I can. β€˜Extroverted’ introverted beings are old souls as like Demisexual need as feeling before anything many people may not get you but some do understand ether to be genuine friendship or more but its truly takes someone special to wake it up its rare for good friendship and partner. Good genuine connection I know everyone wants but truly start with you everything will fall in place. Our souls do not speak a human language they communicate to us through symbols , metaphors , visions , poetry , deep feeling , and everyday magic. Life is all about balance , Balance is not something you find ,It's something you create. Balance is the key to everything. What we do think say , Meeting them all requires awareness and through this awareness we can grow. I made these but it can be meant for friendship or love ether way. Not for me to say what you are but you will find your own way.But never give up your passion in life. Best of luck in your journey.
  10. You might have better luck looking for someone in the lifestyle but find a great friendship that can turn in to something more. Build a connect let the chemistry and connection with conversation.
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  13. Viewer settings fix voice after you push Ok then re log on the viewer and restart your computer so your computer settings and the viewer will work together with voice set up.
  14. Set up on your computer fix voice. Right hand side at the bottom push the window's button. Control panel Hardware and sound then sound settings Pick the right mic settings you using and use as default pushy apply Ok.
  15. A relationship is really the last thing on my mind. Just be my friend be my peace everything will fall in place if meant to be.
  16. 𝘐 𝘨𝘢𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘨𝘦𝘡𝘡π˜ͺ𝘯𝘨 𝘡𝘰 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸 𝘡𝘩𝘦 π˜–π˜— π˜ͺ𝘴 one 𝘸𝘒𝘺 𝘡𝘰 𝘧π˜ͺ𝘯π˜₯ 𝘰𝘢𝘡. Don't have to marry them tonight but you can make a friend see where it goes so many possibilities . Best kind of things in life are unexpected.
  17. Someone can give you sugar and some mum flowers your all set.
  18. Would premium go up to 500 a week like did back then.
  19. It all depends on you don't needing to give anything out right away if they are only fishing for an identity card then they are fresh out of luck. They need to get to know you first to build a connection that builds into a friendship depending if you want to go further with them in a relationship. When the trust has been exchanged energy has been earned you can tell them but you should have to show everything you can discuss this in private conversation. What you want to show totally up to you. They don't need to know your real location or your real name. If its only staying in sl think should just stay that away. Unless you are looking for real this person is to but you do in the right manner. Example: Just say I'm unisex I am this but I have two sides I play lass and Lad I need someone that understands I like to be both this just how I am you take it or leave it but this is me. If they like you for you that is fine but if they can't then that's fine to either stay friends let them go. I just let people be. I don't look for a relationship. I had one here before. the guy forced voice right away; it was the wrong thing he should have taken his time. He was just looking for the next best thing. I walked away from that. Don't tell people your best, show them you're worse at first, see how they treat you. Go by actions , how they treat you , They are good bonding with you. Looks and the person has nothing to do with it how you treat someone. Someone has to love you from the soul. πŸ’—
  20. I know a person that did was many years ago many people really looked up to them they even did event to raise money but they found out before donating to stop the funds that is was a hoax and the owner even went on mic said what we are stopping the event they banned the person they told people not to trust the person they were doing it for funds. Some people change, you can't trust people, why good to read people know the signs. It's not good for a person to lie about passing for funds can get you in big trouble even jail time these days.
  21. It's your second life you create what you want to be only you have the power over that.
  22. Mr right you can find is the Mr right of being yourself for yourself. Clearly don't want wait for someone you could be waiting for a decade , you don't wanna waste your time doing that. Love will happen in the most interesting way not being available to everyone but get to know people just show up simple don't expect people let things flow everything will fall in place over time. "Please, keep looking. Not for a person, but for your passion, your love, your courage, your goals, your dreams, your happiness, yourself. ... yourself. Keep looking. Explore yourself before you explore another. Know your worth, know yourself." "As opposed to looking for the right person, you should work to make yourself the right person for you, and the right person will be drawn to you based on the work that you've done for yourself. " But good positive straight forward introduction in a profile and picks can make a good impact that makes great conversation with great connection for someone to get interested. Keep out the things like : "No Drama "you will get the wrong kind. They will just bother you but can also scare away the right person. Best to leave it positive not all about you want to put more all around you not just you. Say a few things about yourself about what you're going to give in return as well it's truly a two way street but must not put too much but leave yet a mystery if they want to know you more than they need to build a trust over time it has to be shown. Few flattering new pictures, one with your smile , Full length photo, maybe one holding a flower shows your most interesting side, taking pictures in nature, things like if you like sailing the high seas , Playing card games with a few friends. Finding your most interesting hobbies. Love has to build a dear friendship built on a foundation of teamwork , they are your best friend , Your companion and lover. Someone that can see through you and have a deep conversation be attracted to you for the little things that they go out of their way. Their is a place in world called LONELY HEARTS DATING AGENCY you might be fond of it can help you proceed in your match making but will take time. So the best of luck to you with your love and journey in second life.
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