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  1. - The hardest things for me in SL is the inventory. You spend almost all your time for searching copy past, renaming adding wearing etc... things in folders. Inventory is all in SL. If you understand it you understand most of it - Second you need a good level of english. It is excellent to learn english but sometimes it is too much. You understand but you don't understand. You think you understand but you understand other things that the reality. - Then of course avatar and the complexity of type of cloth and attachement. - Vocalulary is not easy to understand. After years I still don't understand some words like rezzing or inworld or prims etc... I know in theory but I never use them and when someone use this words I don't understand the whole sentense. - On other things is the temporality. You talk with someone you have a very good conversation. We get friends and more and then pluf . It is like it never exists. Disparition!!!
  2. Humm for me Hello is not a dead greeting but invite the other to say at least Hello. You can stop after if you want. Otherwise I take that to be not polite. Hello for me means : 'I am here' or 'I see you' ' I wish you a nice day' etc.. But I am sure I am wrong because english is not my language. It is only my feeling.
  3. I agree. This shop is a disaster the search is not relevant. You have no filter to remove demo this is the most anoying part. you cannot search for specific brand. For exemple shirt for Slink In other shops you can search and make filter by brand, and many other criterias. One other things I remark is that I find many times the same article. Dupplicated articles or the sql query is not correct. An other criteria would be - classic - mesh because I already did a mistake and buy a classic cloth thinking it was mesh. Or buying demo without noticing it. It is a disaster but better than shop in the game. Because you need to wait too long to see something. 1 mn per item. so search in shops in the game is worst. Finding was always my problems. I get spam everyday of unsolicited things. The first thngs I do is deleting all message. But when I need something I don't know how to search to find it. Exemple I need a skin for Altamura and AK head. This is a real challenge. Hopfully I have this forum with lot of friendly and nice helpfull people.
  4. Women do you start conversations or are you waiting for someone to say something then decide if it is interesting to continue or not ? When you start are you using the advice you are sharing here. As a man so many time conversation starts in 5 steps 1- Hi or Hello 2- I reply Hi or Hello 3 How are you? or something similar 4. When I don't care I say 'I am ok' or I am fine etc... Sometimes I like to be provocative and say 'I am bad' I am not well etc.. 5 - Nice to hear 6 ---> The real conversation could start.. Sometimes I don't do step 1 to 5 but start at the 6 and come back to the 1 afterward. Because it is very impolite to start a conversation without saying 'Hello' At least in my culture.
  5. I have a question about BoM Backed on Mesh. Is it for body and head or only head. I must say that skins for mesh is a real nightmare for me. Very confusing with layer, applier and other omega kit systems and omega kit reley for head and for bodies. Is skin is still called skin with mesh or does it have an other name like layer or omega.
  6. I see option mute and block. What is the difference. Is it the good option to not only block all contact with a contact but also to be invisible to the blocked contact?
  7. G rate is it something with G point ? G spot
  8. Translator is nice if you know nothing of a language. Sometimes I use to talk with russian or brazilian. It does not work in private IM. And it has not subtlety and the translator does not understand the context. the hardest is to understand rules. At first I though that in SL all was free. Not like in RL. But it is worst. You have cloth : you are ejected because you are sudenly in nude beach and no nude are allowed. You are nude you are ejected on other place. You have normal cloth you are ejected because you need special cloth. If you play role play it is worst you need to learn rules a big book of rules. It is a real work a real study. All that in a stange language that I understand partly. Otherwise life is good and we can meet non judgemental people who understand and have patience.
  9. Not sure to understand well your need. But I understand that you need friends. Real friends with who you are confortable with. We have all our difficulties. Sometimes when you don't do things like we must do. People judge you. Yes !!! I experienced that. For example you are not good in an area. But people say : You are not good in that you should do like this like that. Instead of telling. I accept you like you are. I am sure you will be good later... I am feeling different sometimes too. Like if I am refugees but I met really nice friends. I am confortable with contact one - one. In group in SL that is an other story. I don't know why but with a grout it add difficulties. Difficulties in languages and understanding too many things. That is why my level is one - one. I need to learn how to be with more than one person. Lately I met someone who is a friends maker. She is not only friendly with me. She helps and she created contacts with other. She created situation to know each other. This is an angel maybe. I can introduce her if you contact me in SL IM.
  10. Thank you all for your remarks, responses etc... I still have to learn how to be more patient, to know that SL has all kind of people all kind of expectations all kind of protocol. How can I close the topic? Because I think I open it and would like to do closed.
  11. Sometimes I vary and invent a new protocol but not people understand it. Some people maybe think that impolite. Or inapropriate. For exemple I start by an information (the most important) or a question Then I continue Bye How are you (I hate that question. I hate when People ask me that question I hate asking it but now I know this is the protocole if I don't do it is not working) Then I say Hi ....... That is not impolite but I think this is just cultural. And as anticonformist and kind of rebel this is the way I am. I always try to be polite and respond. I rarely ignore someone except when I don't receive the message or I cannot. And I say Sorry I am busy. The reverse order. But Now I am off of topic.
  12. Even for gesture gesture. I always wanted to know how to have real gesture. Movement or face expression. I find hard to clic clic clic clic to just move my hand. they should be an easy way to use maybe on day I will discover it. But now I learn that you could create a short cut /something maybe that the way I should use it.
  13. thank you Lindal... and I found other helps because retrun line didn't be used. It was not possible to put an assci art for example. I will try this method. If is not a question if it is good or not or if emote is good etc.. It is just the question how to do it. After how we use and what do we prefer is an other story. This is my learning curve. http://forums-archive.secondlife.com/147/b2/337351/1.html Maybe one day I will discover how to put picture in profile and how to user other font. But now I am in Gesture.
  14. I understand something about SL these last day. (I still have problems to understand SL and the culture behind) I expect to meed available people. But most of them are busy in SL and / or in RL. I am here to find someone to talk or friends. I open my friendlist and see 2 or 3 'contacts' online. And I Start 'hi' That is my method. But not all people are waiting like me waiting that someone speak. I am really happy when someone say 'hi' to me and happy when the conversation continue with more than 3 sentences. I am on SL first to talk second to have conversation then to have friend. I though that would be the start, the basic then to to other things. This is level 1. But many people are at level 2, 3 4 or 1000 I am still at level one. That is the reason I don't understand people at level 3 or 4.
  15. I never had a #flickr account only instagram and pixelfed and google photos but are they SL friendly not sure.
  16. I was at orientation island trying to move up jump etc... and learning some short cut. When I have finish I though It was not as hard. After that I was totaly lost. What can I do here. How strange are people. Feeling like a refugee. Feeling lost and alone. I think I didn't grow and I am still the same sometimes still today. SL is really strange.
  17. I just discover than when you type /hey in the local chat it run something. Maybe that the way to use a gesture.
  18. Thank you for your help.
  19. Reading the instruction For the first time I see the difference between play localy and in word I always play localy because I never understood what in word means and actually localy means only for me ???
  20. Starting to understand the instruction. It is explained how to create a gesture. But How to replace a gesture by a text ? It is not explained. I have trigger /hey I imagine you can have other code ? Where is the list ? I suppose this is a code. You need to know that /hey mean something, Replace with Hey! Where can I replace a gesture by a text ?
  21. I always asked myself why so many people used Flicks in SL
  22. Today I was fishing and a friend of my send a text in the local chat ><((((º> Thanks for the Fishies <º))))>< |\ /| | \ ☻ ☻ / | | \ / ▌\ / ▌\ / | | / \ ♥ / \ | ~*~* ><((((º>ʂ<º))))>< *~*~ I ask her how she did. At first I though it was copy past. But it is not easy to have a text file with such things... she said : it is a gesture ??? Untill now gesture was gesture. How was we write something with a gesture. I must say tha I never used gesture. I try it and find it so hard to find. Open inventore > scroll scroll sroll > find gesture > and then click or I don't know how to use it. My question is What can we do with gesture ? Why gesture is not esy to use. In RL we don't have to scroll scroll scroll to find a gesture. And last question how to write that kind of thing.
  23. Log off, switch off your computer go out and delete the application of your compture and phone, Why do you want to stay in SL if you have no motivation. So many people are addicted and want to stop but cannot. for you it is opposite. Just make a break
  24. I think there are much more RL men with female avi than opposite. Why I am thinking that ? Just because I see much many females. Personnaly I try to have a female avi and My conclusion is that it is much more easy. In RL world I always hear that there is no equality between man and women etc etc but in SL that is the case. SL is a female dominant game. How many female write they are bi? are they real female ? I just ask the question. Why are they so many lesbian much more that in RL? What is interesting in beeing female is the interaction between the oposite sex. It is much more easy to talk to a female as a female. As a male you are by defaut an enemy. Lesbian place are 'safe'.
  25. That discussion about mixing SL and RL feeling is not old. The first post date of 2011 but it is still. It is like our emotion 'exagerated' or amplified in RL. An other thing I notice in SL is that nothing is solid. All is illusion. On day you have a friend a good relationship or anything. and... Like a mirage it disappears. The disparition could have many reasons : One have not time for SL. Or motivation of one person is degreases. Or whatever reason. But at the end nothing left. I will love forever ---> that sentense has no sens in SL. In RL it is not sens because our life is short (80 years) but in SL how long is the expectation of relationship in average ? 30 days ? Of course you could reply I am in relationship in SL for years etc.. but I am not sharing official statistics but only my feeling and my experience.
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