Hey Skell (or should I say Batman 😉), thanks for your long and clear explanation
I tried everything you said and watched the video but it's still not working. I think the problem lies with the eyeshadow I'm using... it's "Pink Fuel - LAQ eyeshadow" and includes an Omega applier which is what I used. After doing steps 1-3, I applied the eyeshadow and (as you can see from the photo) it still looks odd. I tried moving the blend slider for the blush and eyebrows from right to left but it didn't fix it. I'm wearing a Catwa Catya head.
I thought I could use this eyeshadow as I have the Omega Catwa relay HUD but maybe it's the wrong one for me?