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  1. Talking about rl, not sl. Haven't been on sl in awhile and my business did not launch. The sugar daddy was an sl thing with lindens, as I wanted to be a sub in sl. I am a dominatrix irl.
  2. Looking for someone who is seriously into findom...need a man to assert my dominance with 😜
  3. I read your whole post and he did seem like he had a sugar daddy-esque thing about him. As for this statement, I feel like the relationship should stand after those situations occur. That man/woman is there for you through thick and thin. Just because he isn't able to provide should not end the relationship. You adapt and work together on it. There were plenty of times when my past sugar daddy was unable to give me my weekly amount. It made the rp even better. That's where the connection comes in...a trust level is built and should withstand things like this. Long story short: It's not a business transaction for me, at least.
  4. Honestly, the guy you met seems like he was a really generous and interesting one. As for the comments and shade, I did notice that. It's a little annoying (but it IS the internet, so it happens) because I tried to be as serious as I could. This type of relationship isn't for everybody. The women (and men) who seek relationships like this are frowned upon because others don't understand the depths of the relationship (or at least the one I am looking for). We are looked at as gold diggers and such, when that's not the case. I like a certain amount of attention from my men (on SL, not really IRL). I find pleasure in pleasing the man and watching him truly enjoy my company. It pleases me to see, I don't know, a couple hundred Linden or maybe a few wishlist items taken care of for me every once in a while. It makes me feel worthy of his attention, and excited to be "Daddy's little girl." I find joy in not underestimating the depths of the relationship and seeing it for what it really is instead of for what others tend to see. Frankly, many don't read up on these types of things and just go based off of word-of-mouth crap that gets passed around. It's sad, but it's life. Not everyone is as interested in BDSM as I.
  5. I agree to a certain extent. Not only does he spoil her with material things, but sexual desires as well. In my opinion, a connection is made between the two and a level of trust is created in order to do the naughty things you both may want to do. It's a fascinating part of BDSM I enjoy a lot.
  6. Honestly, the relationship I had before was strictly in SL at first. We used voice and would rp...then it went to messaging IRL, which turned into Skype, which turned into real money. However, that relationship lasted years. There are plenty of men who still only want SL relationships for whatever reason (disabled, older, widow, etc.) but I feel like they lost their trust in women on here. Most of them probably just want to use them instead of attempting to build an actual relationship. LOL! This sounds really interesting though...something I hadn't heard of before now. This is right up my alley, tbh. Maybe not long-term, but something fun and entertaining for the man. I feel like we all have a different idea of what a sugar daddy really is...depends on the person, it seems. Anyone have a definition they wanna bring up?
  7. Maybe I haven't been looking at the right ones then because..LOL. Any suggestions?
  8. My pet peeves...omg so many over the years! Just to name a few: AO's with weird walks (you try them out and you like everything BUT the walking animation) The price for mesh heads (I'm just frugal...this is not the only price I have an issue with lmao) Forums turning defensive (people really just want to post and talk about what they post...people act like piranhas sometimes) Flexi hair (why does it move like that???) The Marketplace (by now it should look different, like updated, right?) Lol there are probably soooo many more.
  9. Thank you...EST is where I stay. See I knew SLT was actually PST...so confusing lmao.
  10. I definitely hate arguing lol...if anything, I was trying to keep one of those forum arguments from starting. They get really annoying very quickly, especially for the OP. My attitude is in bed, not laying my fingers across a keyboard hehe. No negativity over here! I'm sure a nice guy will come around sooner or later...thanks for the luck!
  11. Feel free to add me inworld to talk! My name is JermaniSteele. Still in search of an amazing man who can satisfy my wants and needs, and I for them.
  12. There is only one Eastern time zone at a time...the daylight is the new time zone after Daylight Savings goes into effect. Also, no issues with the minor derail. It was just a little excessive because I do live here and research was done over something I thought I clarified. Forum talk is so interesting...oh how I have missed it.
  13. Thank you for this...however, to put it shortly: there is only one Eastern time zone in the US and it is EST, or Eastern Standard Time. Now hopefully we can bring it back around to the original topic lol.
  14. Yea I put Eastern USA :). Also, I am very accommodating of those from other countries. That’s probably why I was reluctant to add my time zone. I tend to just match up with theirs by accident lmao.
  15. Eastern USA...isn't SLT Pacific time? West coast USA?
  16. Aha...I hate doing profiles! Talk about myself? Too hard! But I shall try. Oh, what a bad habit I have...sorry, men! (Or women...any sugar muvas out there?) I am a female in SL and IRL. Yea that makes more sense...Eastern timezone...on from around 5pm to 3am depending on the day... I feel the language difference would take away from what I look for in a relationship...yea, the money might be nice. But can we actually CONNECT?
  17. I definitely didn't notice this! Thank you, and thank you to all who posted.
  18. I recently got back into SL and went to purchase the only mesh body I know about...Maitreya Lara. I just bought a new skin for it but it won't load all the way...I have reset and everything. Any help?
  19. It's quite sad, but I used to intentionally create an avatar that was of lighter skintone to make up for the lack of attention I got from being a darker skintone. I learned to embrace my IRL skintone in SL and found many more problems. It all depends on how you carry yourself. I would say use Facebook to find them. I found a ton running RP sims and such.
  20. I'm probably gonna be online at least 4 days out of the week...and English ONLY (I suck at Spanish lol). As for the Lindens, that's something I can definitely discuss with that guy when the time comes. I'm looking for stability, so something every week suits me. The amount is up to them and what they can handle.
  21. Hey, everyone! Before I go into what I mean by that title, I want to start off by saying I am glad to be back. I started using SL back in 2010, and took a LONG break back around this time a year ago. I was very well...intrigued to see how much has changed (Bento...new platform?) and I was also disappointed to see that most of my friends have gone off somewhere else. So, I created a new avi and started over in hopes of building a newly improved version of myself. I look to SL to get away from the stress of RL and all that entails. I love my life, though I want a place where I can ever so easily express myself in ways I might not be able to IRL. I am in search of a man, a Sugar Daddy, who can provide for me in ways I can't for myself...time, effort, affection, and Lindens. This is not a money grab for me, but a relationship where I can be the submissive for a man who may or may not have one in his life. I want to devote much of my time in SL to him...and in return, I would love to have him listen to me and care about the things I am passionate about. I want to be intimate with him, as well. I want to introduce him to my friends that I shall soon make again (lol). I want to rp with him...I want to be able to ask for an amount of Lindens and he get excited about providing. I'm not sure if you can tell, but I had someone like this in my life before. Unfortunately, he and I no longer speak...So, I want to genuinely fill this role again and be happy with my SL family I will create sooner or later. I love to talk to people, so if you reply here I will respond, hehe. Feel free to IM me with any questions, or even just to talk. By the way, I stay in EST.
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