McCuno

Thats cool Cindy , its a mess of my own making if i had paypal she would have access to that as well .

Its an email only used for SL , i've never shared it or my login with anyone , as for TOS the only possibility i can think of is i was recently attacked by a homophobic (using an attack hud) and he kicked me all over a moderate sim and shouting about my skirt being to short to hide much . I've been at that sim a lot recently its a very friendly place , added a few people who have 10 years or more in sl and never a word of complaint . When someone asked whats going on i assumed it was staff and my attacker was kicked from the sim nothing else was said to me .

And how do i explain to my gf after 10 years of using her paypal that i need my own ? she does my online banking . SL is my escape from rl i don't want to discuss it with my employees or my accountants , my family or my gf lol .

I don't have a premium account , i'd like to but there's no way to pay for it here in the UK without Linden Labs appearing on my bank statement (uk prepaid cards are not accepted) so i can't use live chat . I guess i just have to wait and maybe i will get a reply next year . Thanks for all the suggestions though i will let you know it ends , even if its finished already i will update the thread next week .

They haven't deleted my account or my profile wouldn't still be seen , would they lock me out of it without even an email or message of any kind ? And if i was genuinely banned (for reasons i can't fathom) why would they let me start again using the same email , i'm still me ?

My alt is stood where i was right now Gifts are no good to me because nothing fits lol , shopping and altering my avatar is no fun for me at all just opening my inventory is a chore . I'm not doing it again no way even if LL gave me £1000 in cash to do it .

Ultimately we are all in sl to communicate , when there must be at least one full sim for every user its not exactly easy to find someone to communicate with . The destination guide is the most useful feature for a newbie because it shows places to go where you might actually find someone else . People not places make SL and i would love to see the destination guide expanded so we can seek others of similar interests instead of being herded into specific regions . I spent 17 months wandering , the search facility is useless , so i click on peoples profiles and tp to their picks - sometimes - just sometimes the sim in their picks actually still exists , though you could probably build a house in the middle of the dancefloor and nobody would notice for months . What i'm saying is SL is to big , if you book a hall that holds 1000 people for a party of 20 its never going to be a great party .

Yes thats me , a drifter with no hangout or home never leaving the adult zones , yet ironically half of them call me a counselor lol I have contacted 3 of my most regular explaining the trouble is nobody associates me with anyone in particular , "when i'm with you there is only you but you know when i'm not with you i'm with someone else and so you should continue your search for the one you want and need , i will always be here when you need someone" The quote is a little insight into how i live in sl , rarely do two of my contacts meet and i'm useless with names if someone says hello i look at chat log so i can pick up where i left off .

yes i made this alt just so i can ask here

Looks to me like cunomar is dead and my sl is over , sad thing is i don't care about the money but even with all have have learned it would take me months to remake my av and even if i was willing to do that i've lost some very good friends , i'm sorry to leave them without explanation ☹️

AHHH it wants me to change my alts password , which is a similar name

Thanks Ethan , i will try that - again

Im on an alt an hour old using the same email and password just a different user name . An alt that will be deleted if i can get my life back .If i can't get it back then i'm finished with sl and i will uninstall it .

I did it but i get no email telling me my new password ? my login name does not exist so it can't be connected to any email

I created a ticket as a guest , i can't change name or password when my own doesn't exist . Saying i'm not frantic doesn't mean i'm not worried , i paid almost £1000 for a laptop just for sl my old one is fine for everything else i do . And as a male avatar crossdresser (which is undoubtedly the hardest thing to be in sl , every item of clothing represents weeks , days and hours of finding , editing and usually deleting without ever wearing because very little fits . It took me 9 months of trial and error to create a look some actually compliment . I have 165 contacts last time i looked