Well, I have to admit I have learned a lot in this thread. And, because of that, have now restricted access to my parcel. Yes, they can cam.. but, cannot see the people there. And, I am next door to this person with the bots... and, guess what. I have no issues at all. If You are a paying SL user You do get a free linden house. Could always use that to meet your friend. I'm out ~ ta