Kathlen Onyx

Just the last couple of pages the way you explain "winning" and mansplaining in your heart menders group, and this post specifically, I highly suspect that you have had ANY real training in psychology. The way you gaslight, can't see others points of view, only your own and the way you throw a tantrum when you don't get your way tells volumes that you are just pulling stuff out of your butt. I would warn anyone to stay far away because you do WAY more harm than good.

Wrong. If someone gets shot in the head *adverse condition* and recovers they learned survival not resilience.

Thank you for posting an article from a reputable site rather than the hogwash from psychology today.

Well you have fun Luna. I'm no longer engaging in your attention seeking behavior. I should have bowed out when love did. Have fun with your thread.

You can post a topic and hope it stays on topic. A normal thread will have twists and curves otherwise every thread would be boring. You very often go on a tangent and go off topic on a thread. Shall we point that out when you do it?

OR they are just having fun in a game they don't take seriously.

You again, are discrediting people's responses and attempting to make people post what you want and the way you want. That's not how forums work.

I would disagree with you. A griefer in SL usually does it for fun and games. It's only negative to the one being griefed if they see it that way. YOU might read up on that.

Did you read any of our answers or just re-read your posts? That's ALL we've been saying in the entire thread!

I'm not sure you know what the definition of resilience is. re·sil·ience /rəˈzilēəns/ noun 1. the capacity to withstand or to recover quickly from difficulties; toughness. "the remarkable resilience of so many institutions" 2. the ability of a substance or object to spring back into shape; elasticity. "nylon is excellent in wearability and resilience"

\ When the OP starts insulting people in a thread they started cause it's not going their way. P.S. Are you getting permission from these avatars to post them on the forum?

We are resorting to personal attacks now? Great. I've been in SL all day since 6am yet I'm on the forum as well. I guess some of us can multi task.

Oh yeah. I missed it. Who was it? I mean if they said it on the forum it's ok to say right? Since you brought it up.

Well now we have a direct question. Nothing because everything I do in SL makes me feel better. Even what you might call stressful I just laugh off and click the X and go watch Forensic Files.

I have done that before. It's kinda fun.

No, it doesn't. My opinion of course.

I see now where I went wrong...

I'm not so sure that would follow the TOS set up now. People would just buy buy buy till they get the random item they want.

I dO nOt HaVe ThE pAiEnCe FoR tHaT! See I spelled patience wrong and am not going back to fix it.

LOL, you make it sound like a Mother bear has the same reasoning as a human. Perhaps the Mother bear knew that there wouldn't be a danger to the cubs where she placed them due to, oh I don't know...instinct?

Because if they didn't attribute this to SL they couldn't discuss the topic and sneak in all the RL stuff they wanted to say.

i did demo the outfit and it fit beautifully standing there in a Tpose. I neglected to dance in the item which is totally on me for sure. If it wasn't a lacey item the alpha's would have been fine but when you alpha lace you always can see you did it. I will be more careful from now on. Because this was a very well known and popular brand I trusted it too much I guess. It was a $499 outfit which isn't chump change for an outfit in SL. It will go in the trash and I won't write a review because I don't particularly like my name on bad reviews. This was one of the very few Lara X only items I've bought. I will go back t buying items that have both a Maitreya and a Lara X option as I won't feel as I've wasted as much then.

(Snip from original post) We all encounter difficult experiences in SL -- what helps you cope and develop resilience? Do you recognize patterns in the poem that relate to how you manage difficult situations in SL, and/or do you have coping strategies of your own to share? ________ I like your answer Cinnamon but you understand the question asked correctly the first time you read it.

DID YOU NOT GET THE MEMO? PEOPLE LIKE BIG BUTTS AND THEY DON'T LIE!

I LIKE THAT I GET TO LISTEN TO MUSIC I NORMALLY W0ULDN'T LISTEN TO.