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  1. Kathlen Onyx
    I've seen quite a few posts of people asking for someone to hang out with and be friends and wonder "does it really work out"? I added a couple people a long time ago and they either didn't try to keep up the friendship or we were so far apart in interests that we had nothing in common. Normally I make friends organically in world because then I know we'd get along and have similar interests. What are your thoughts? Have you ever advertised for friends and became close with someone or formed a lasting friendship from an ad on the forum?
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    Good luck. When I first started I bought a bunch of no copy things and did the same thing. Hopefully if you submit a ticket you'll get them back. I didn't even know you could submit a ticket and I did lose a very expensive Intan dance system. Trust me I never did that again.
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    I have quite a few friends but we don't really "hang" out together. We'll hang at certain clubs and IM each other but not get together. The only exception was a group of us formed a Wed night greedy group and whomever could come would play for an hour or two. Most couples tend to do things together or hang on their own. So it's not you guys, it's just the way it is I think. I wish I had better suggestions for you. Maybe start with a game group or gather people for movie night and see how that goes. Invite a few people. Also everyone in the group has to like everyone or at the very least tolerate them for a short period of time.
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    When someone starts a thread saying all alts should be banned yet the account they posted on is just over a year old. Then they write "not new, been here since 2011" Eyerolls
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    Barn Owls
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    It's really not nice to threaten people on a public forum. I only said that about the office because half the post was about how great it was. Shrugs. You could accomplish the same thing on an empty wood platform at 6000 feet. Anywho, I hope you get some employees that can fulfill all your demands.
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    Just as a warning to people about discussing RL on SL. Even the most innocent of things could have dire consequences. I once met someone who told me what city and state they were from. Innocent chat as we were talking about the weather. About 3 months later he told me he'd won a Christmas decorating contest from the city and they gave him a prize and were going to post pictures on their website. Out of curiosity, because I wanted to see the pictures, I went to the site and lo and behold his real name AND address was posted. It also showed his RL picture. If I was the sort that was out to harm people I very easily could have done it. I made sure he knew to not share that kind of info with anyone. So giving access to your real PC wasn't smart but just assume everyone here "could be" out to harm you in RL and act accordingly.
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    I have these and they are free. They are pretty nice looking for the price and have lots of options https://marketplace.secondlife.com/p/Sheer-Shade-Curtain-b2/5258046
  9. Kathlen Onyx
    Quite the opposite after today. AND Happy Birthday!
  10. Kathlen Onyx
    The only sure way to never talk to him again is make a new avatar. Turn off IM's for anyone not a friend or group and leave your profile empty with no payment info on it. You can always transfers $L to your new avatar from your old one. You are probably thinking that it isn't fair you have to do all this but if you really have been stalked for 3 years and he keeps finding you then this is the best way to go. If anyone has experienced or heard of someone going this far to stalk someone in SL I'd love to hear of the experience.
  11. Kathlen Onyx
    I don't know where you get your information but this simply is not true.
  12. Kathlen Onyx
    You could be.
  13. Kathlen Onyx
    Is there a reward given if we turn him in?
  14. Kathlen Onyx
    I might add that because you have been so descriptive on every single thing he has done and what you have done to combat it he now knows who your current avatar is. If he's smart enough to find you despite you doing totally unnecessary things to stop him, such as buying a new computer, then he is smart enough to know about the Second Life forums. If I were you I'd delete this before he gets wind of it. If it hasn't been 24 hour otherwise you are out of luck. Then only speak to avatars that you initiate conversations with. Also turn on only receive IM's from friends and groups.
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    My daughter who actually has a PsyD degree and runs her own practice might disagree with you.
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    When has that stopped you?
  17. Kathlen Onyx
    Luna, I'm not getting into a thread war with you this weekend. I said what I needed to say in both threads. Feel free to discuss with other people,
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    He shouldn't be asking for psychoanalysis anywhere but with a real life therapist/counselor. Those that advocate this should be ashamed of themselves. It's very harmful and could have real life consequences for someone, especially the vulnerable population.
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    Dude, you've got issues that probably a SL counselor won't help with, How many women have you been in love with?
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    Call me skeptical but there is no way that IF you did all these things that the person would be able to find you. NOT possible. 1 First post on the forum 2. Saying all the ways they seem to find you? Or all the ways you are trying to find someone and ran out of ideas/options. 3. What better way to find out ways to stalk someone than to post and get ideas from others. I'm sure I'll get some flack for this but I just don't believe it.
  21. Kathlen Onyx
    It's no wonder that Blueberry shut down all communications. The rumors about this being the end of Second Life has already begun. SMH.
  22. Kathlen Onyx
    I'm confused. You say that you will provide a nice office space in exchange for ideas? Why wouldn't someone just make their own office space and implement their own ideas? You don't even really need a decorated office but It's not that hard to make a beautiful space to hold meetings. Look at some of the picture threads here on the forum. All I really got from your post is negativity in a pretty package. You say you want to form a business partnership and hire an assistant and yet you stopped doing it because you lost passion and people are super ungrateful and don't want to work. What makes you think a new idea is going to change that? I realize that I didn't give you any "ideas" so mute me if you must.
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    I just want to add that I think that any RL therapy or counseling is a very dangerous thing to be doing in Second Life unless you can verify that you have legitimate credential's to do this type of work. Especially since Second Life has a large vulnerable population and to engage in this type of "RP", as you call it, could have a negative impact on someone's mental health. I would never advocate nor engage in RL counseling in Second Life. If someone needs RL therapy or counseling they should be seen by a professional in RL so that they can be monitored or prescribed medication if need be.
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    I hated it and deleted it right away
  25. Kathlen Onyx
    This should probably be moved to the roleplay forum. Might be why there are so many questions. I've done RP like this but it was mostly satire and ridiculous situations. If you expect people to bring RL issues to one of your RP Therapists then it's not RP.
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