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Pomeline Pancake

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  1. I'm 5'8" and over a 100lbs. No one has ever picked me up easily. It would strain their poor back.
  2. Another reason for stating age can prevent minors from trying to interact with you. I ran into a few that wanted to be friends in the past. They generally seek people their own age. Stating I'm outside their peer range has eliminated that issue.
  3. Destinations and well known stores that don't appear in the viewer search.
  4. An enamel pin of the eye could be fun.
  5. Description seems a little graphic for this part of the forum. But hey what do I know. Anyway if people are having healthy, consensual interactions more power to them. I support most arrangements that satisfy and lift every involved party up. You do you.
  6. Nope. I'm basic af. SL is full of beautiful ink, but it doesn't have any meaning to me. Recently tried making some for fun. Still don't wear them though. It was an experiment out of boredom.
  7. Ugh. This topic is still on the mind. Maybe there's someone out there that struggles with understanding this stuff too? The old system. Beginner experience: shared everything with no regard for personal safety Intermediate experience: eventually learned to save the above for friends alone Advanced experience: A. Just sl. Entirety of a friendship exists within the confines of the virtual world. Maybe (maybe not) sharing of rl (possibly voice and pics in world), but no contact on the outside. B. Mixed lives. RL first names, socials, photos, voice and video chat. Even with the door opened to rl this remains online only. C. RL. A fully integrated crossover. All the above plus full name, phone number, home address, and visits in person. The real deal. Genuine friendship. Despite categorizing trust levels with more experience, I've still been harmed by people in level b. It's difficult to accurately judge sometimes. Probably lack intuition or something. Idk. Has to be a more logical method of approaching this type of decision. Either way be smarter and wiser than me folks.
  8. Hi Fairy. Love your animal crossing photo. Are you playing new horizons atm?
  9. Used to hop on voice or cam anytime someone asked. Even if we had just met. Umm. Realized that wasn't the smartest idea after multiple gross encounters. Decided it was best to only do that for friends. Used to tell people details about my rl and invited them into it for years. Until I met two sl people diagnosed with cluster b issues at the same time. Allowing them access irl... Oh how naive I was. Realized that was a huge mistake and regret it to this day. Maybe it can happen again in the future, but for now I'm too anxious from the last experience to make sl friends again. Much less let them in my rl.
  10. I was introduced to sl by a rl high school ex girlfriend. At a young age she began having children irl, and no longer had time for sl. Tried to bring in a different rl ex girlfriend and two rl friends. They couldn't grasp the magic of sl and left. Reversed. Two sl best friends became rl best friends. We've met in person multiple times and text everyday. One sl girlfriend became a rl girlfriend. The sl to rl people lost the magic of sl years ago and left. I haven't bothered to do any crossovers since.
  11. Oh no. Gotta eat my words. I've been a silent lurker of the forums. Off and on for a few years. I enjoy reading what others post. Most of the time. This is my preferred way to people. Nothing against bagnu personally. Simply her threads create many arguments. Needlessly. Some people have been upset to the point of leaving the forums. That's wrong. Even though I abhor attention and do my best to avoid it at all costs, I had to crawl out of my cave and speak my mind on this matter. A lot of people are lonely. Including me. That's the reality of life. No amount of loneliness is a pass to treat others poorly. In fact constantly sowing discomfort or pain (even if unintentional), and telling others to just accept it is bordering on abuse. Around the world people are experiencing stress from Covid, and other matters. Unnecessary fighting feels worse than it would normally. Even though I read from afar, I'm tired of it.
  12. Region settings for places of interest. Places paris 2 for editing and decorating. Blackskymoon to give my eyes a break.
  13. That requires empathy and genuine remorse for hurting others. Which is absent. "Actually, no. I am who I am. There is the ignore....." "I'm me. I deal with consequences, and no one will change me. Period Ever. End of story lol!!!" She stirs up drama for personal enjoyment. "I help people live out their sexual fantasies here, (and make them feel human if they are RL disabled). In RL what I am would be considered immoral. In SL I feel that I'm morally doing the right thing!!!" "None of my clients have ever admitted to having any sort of disability. I'm going on discussions I have had inworld, and what I have read on the internet." Feigning innocence, pretending to be ignorant, and blaming casual cruelty on language differences will only last for so long. The pattern shows that this person thrives off fighting with others. With time her true character will surface, and there won't be any excuses left to use. It's best not to feed trolls. Basic internet 101. This is my first and last post on the matter.
  14. No one should allow cheap slurs of any kind to be used as acceptable lingo. Allies are important. While some autistic people are eloquent enough to speak for themselves, I'm not one of them. I greatly appreciate Amina's input, and all of the valid points she made. Thank you, Amina. You said everything I wish I could've said.
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