Woa first of all thank you guys for all responding so fast and at all
So, the teacher thing wasn't meant in a sexual way, i mean, it could be ofcourse and i'm open to that but i meant it originally in a literall sense.
Thanks for the tip on expanding my profile (may i call you Maddy as Talligurl did?)! I didn't realise people really looked at that : p
As to using the in-world search and Destination guides, that's the part where I fail.
I don't know where to go in-world to meet new people, the places i've been to were not particiullary full or with people taking an interest in a newbie.