AshaShanti

Thanks Scylla, I truly appreciate your words and everyone else's that kept the balance in this sudden heated debate - at least it was for me. I do think it was a very useful experience due to all the answers of everyone - there is no way one can possibly know all that there is to know about this topic - this thread was a source of lots and lots of info, angles and opinions and I hope it helped some others that have been wondering about this - to answer some questions. I live in South Africa - violent crime, rapes and other horrific stuff happening here on a daily basis like many of you might know - so one is forced to keep pondering these things here regularly. I truly had absolutely no idea about snuff and similar stuff - and now I see it is quite popular in SL - so probably most people were wondering "where has she been all these years" - well if you are not into something obviously you won't go out looking for it - so that is basically the reason - like some others also said. Thanks again for the encouragement.

Ok thanks now it is more clear - it appears that you feel better if you carry on insulting people - calling them names without knowing them really and what they are about - very much like all those SJWs that for some reason need to do this to feel complete as a person. I don't agree with that, and would never do it to you or anyone else because it ruins the discussion. If this makes you happy carry on - but you do realise you act just like the person you describe above without actually listening to me and allow for a discussion to take place. However if this is what you feel is your truth - you are more than welcome to it. Calling people names without allowing them to actually explain what they mean - will not solve problems and will do nothing for the causes you feel strongly about. However everyone else that went to great length explaining the many angles that is at play here - did just that - solved problems. That was basically all I wanted to figure out based on the discussion and inputs here - thanks.

So basically what I conclude that it is no problem to call people fascist here. I just wanted to clear that. And otherwise it seems here - no matter what I say - you will find some problem with it so not much else left to say.

I started SL on the non profit commons and have been teaching. I have been to many bdsm sims - I have many on my list that are into bdsm - in fact I just friended a sub 2 minutes ago. I don't care if someone is into bdsm or not. I find dulcet different from other bdsm kinks that is all. I have many alts - why does that matter.

That is very unlikely.

Alwin - I have never posted on this forum - I did explain that before. By new I mean - this was my first post on this forum site.

OK you are actually right about that - but why do it then.

Ah ok thanks. I am new here.

I can feel about stuff in any way I want lol - just like you can too. I never called anyone here a fascist.

Ok so then in your views this is how you would deal with anyone and since Syo is a Forum Elf - she agrees that people are to be called names to solve problems.

Oh ok so in this forum - it is how you do things. Well ok. It is your choice. Not right but up to you.

Voila so you say - calling people fascist if they don't agree with you - is the right thing to do.

Well in the meantime I have had some discussions on this topic - including those managing the sim, and various other groups of people. Since I am not into anything relating to bdsm - I had no clue this existed and is called snuff or dulcet. My problem at this point is not anymore with this kink - but with those that think it is ok to call someone a fascist on this forum and all sorts of other terms that have nothing to do with me - and with those that are clapping along and adding fun smileys to these posts, and those that say - I am here for the drama - and with the moderators that look on. Please refrain from calling each other these sort of names - or at least I would ask a moderator to say a few words on this. Everyone else I talked to about this topic in SL in world had no problems and never called me names in fact noone has ever called me names in general. To those that was trying to keep a balance and sent info - thanks - I now know what is going on with this kink or at least have some ideas. I also appreciate those that apologised.

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Just to clarify - I have posted this in a hurry - I was a bit shocked - granted - I did not mean that only my opinion is right - even if it sounded so - which is true. Hope this helps to clear things for everyone else as well that has been pondering these things - all the above makes sense Kanry, and LittleMe - and I do believe that SL is a safe outlet for all sorts of things that is not acceptable in RL. Please note - I am from Hungary and some of the things might not be as clear as can be due to English not being my home language.

Bree Giffen thanks - I never expected this sort of response - obviously I was not aware of rules that everyone else knew much better since the others spend more time on this forum. I must have triggered the people - which was not my intention - I appreciate all those that answered me calmly. Clearly mentioning this topic was a nono - whoever got hurt in the process - I apologise.

Alwin, well I suppose we won't know exactly what that statement means unless she clarifies it

It seems many here (not all at all ) like to get all hectic on a poor first time user - like it was fun - I don't think that helps much in a forum - or I don't see the reason at all - but if you are into that - you are more than welcome. It does help to be calm and discuss things without getting to hectic - you get further in solving problems, finding solutions or understanding things better - all the points that were made were equally valid and useful for understanding the whole picture. If I thought I am the ultimate authority on any subject I would not write on a forum.

whatever you say Alwin - if you wanna be right - you are more than welcome.

Thanks Resi

Solar you seem to have a problem with me lol - can't you be a bit nicer - it is not like I attacked you in any way. I did not say that I am not appreciating all the input. and I said thanks to all those that took time to reply.

Alwin I am not sure why you keep repeating this when : Anna clearly says in her very first message : "So don't go there. Better still, go away." But anyways - yes obviously I won't go there - thanks.

As soon as I write my very first message - I am immediately told to go away - that was my first reply. But I appreciate everyone's contributions - I won't follow this thread anymore. Take care all