Ask yourself why you come into sl. I am sure it is not to be in an unhappy relationship where no love, affection, or romance is expressed by your partner anymore. You sound like an outgoing and friendly person who is faithful and honest, yet he still does not value that or trust that in you. As a few others have mentioned, this is not a healthy relationship, and I urge you to consider leaving him as soon as possible. I have a question for you; was he able to log into sl more frequently before? He mentioned that he is feeling depressed; is that why he hasn't been logging in as frequently?