[SL is a very lonely place, how do I find friends?]

I know the feeling, i have been on there, just filled out more information on my profile.  Been joining groups, and going to some places but only people were rude to me and said like you got no chance!  Everyone seems to ignore me! Sometimes i try and make a conversation but just get ignored!  So i know the feeling about that! Even in social places, how do you know online they are not artificial intelligence part of the turing test!