Okay....this is kind of a sensitive subject. When I first meet men, right off, they want proof I'm female. And they want me to Skype or use voice for sex -before I even get to know them. I'm very uncomfortable using Skype, to me, it would make me feel very inhibited. And I need to get to know someone before cyber sex. Am I odd for feeling that way? It just seems like ,"Hello, do you Skype and use voice when you have sex?" Then, they want me to prove I'm female if I won't do these things. I send a picture. No, that won't do. They want me to talk. But the truth is that in RL I'm deaf, so I don't have all that great a voice -hence, no voicing or Skype. Is this normal for men in SL? I came here because I wanted to get away from my disability, but I feel forced into "reality" again. Are all men this way -wanting you to prove you're a female by Skyping and voicing? Thanks.