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ValorWhit

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  1. My member is so long that -- Oh, wait. That's not what the OP meant. Never mind.
  2. That's the goal right there. I pointed in the direction she needs to go. The rest is up to her now. I know better than to get involved in other people's drama and I know you can't help everyone but sometimes I still gotta try.
  3. I'm trying to talk her into seeing someone RL but anything would be better than doing nothing. I did see a place that says they have RL certs. Mostly what I want is to be sure she sees someone that is not role playing and get her comfortable enough to seek RL help. I have been to couples counseling before. It is actually enjoyable once you get started. She is so depressed, closed off and angry it is hard for her to do anything
  4. I could say asking for a friend but no one would believe that. Does anyone know of a counseling service in SL? Marriage counseling preferred but depression issues too. They kind of go hand in hand in my experience. I'm sure other people have asked this before. let me add, I know we can search for counseling services in world but I would like to know if anyone has had any good experiences with any of these places rather. Otherwise it's like picking at random.
  5. Thanks for the advice. I widened the mouth just a bit. I am almost happy with it. They still look a little soft but I'll take kissable. What was throwing me off before were the animations that played automatically. Once I found out how to turn most of them off it helped tremendously. Maybe I should put a shirt on next time. I do own clothes and can get all the way dressed. Does this mean I can order the Club sandwich now?
  6. Is it OK to ask for advice in here? I bought a new head. Catwa Dude. I feel like I'm buried in HUDs but I'll figure that all out in time. What's bugging me is I cannot get the lips right. They look a little pouty to me. What do you all think of this? Too boyish or is the mouth OK?
  7. Does Second Life bypass personal filters?
  8. Underwater and hidden away means one thing. Having done my share of construction jobs in my life I can be 100% certain that this is where the Linden Lab maintenance workers hide to play dominoes.
  9. Bitsy Buccaneer wrote: You could always have a few pre-made shapes ready to go and adjust them to work better with whomever is around. Actually that is so elegantly simple I'm not sure why I didn't think of it. 4 scales of me and just change out of my normal height when needed. (edit) Actually I think I'll keep my one height as it is unless someone special comes along. Just be me. Thanks for all the advice
  10. Penny Patton wrote: I feel it's important to know why they make their avatars so big in the first place Don't try to over think it. It is the same reason a man does anything. Why do I have a pierced ear? Because when I was 17 a cute girl said she likes earrings. Why do I have tattoos? Because another girl said she liked men with ink. Why do I wear boots? Some pretty thing said the clunking foot steps sounded sexy. Which brings me to the original question. I need to know the best height to be when standing next to a woman in Second Life. For every 8' tall man there is a 7'8" woman that told him he needed to be taller. It really is that simple.:matte-motes-nerdy:
  11. Amethyst Jetaime wrote: PLEASE though make your arms long enough lol. It's funny how many men make tall muscular avi's and then have short arms making them look like a tyrannosaurus. No worries there. I am lanky in real life so I made my avatar like that as well. 
  12. Nova Convair wrote: Move the slider so that you feel right compared to others and the environment. Easier said than done! One night I am dancing with a girl that doesn't reach my belly button and the next night I am staring at another girls bewbs I could say it would be easier for me if yall were constant but when has a woman ever tried to make it easier for a man? That's a joke, ya know. You know how there is a hover slider you can adjust at any time? I need a scale slider so I can fit with whoever I am with.
  13. What is a typical height for a guy in SL? I originally made my shape to be 6' 1" to match my real height. I had a lot of people tell me I was too short and compared to some of the monsterously tall people, I was. I have since bumped it up to 6' 8" but it doesn't feel right. I surely don't want to try and be the tallest possible. What is a good height in SL without turning into a Lurch look a like?
  14. I would try to jump in a defend men's point of view but it looks like I would just be piling on. BTW, what exactly would you call degrading? Right now I am logged and have search opened. I see a mix of adult and moderate places in the ads at top. Of the adult places i have to scroll over to see a drawing of two mostly nude women looking provocative. Is that degrading? There is also a picture of a nude woman from behind sitting in a chair with her arms tied in a criss-cross from elbows to wrists. Is that degrading? Am I a bad person for thinking the tied woman is much more visually appealing, artistic and tastefully done of the ads?
  15. ajmeneyerji wrote: A wheel is a technology, but I was referring to technology in the realm of communication. I have joking so far but I know someone who is involved with communication technology. You sould send ajmeneyerji Resident an IM in world. That what he does for a living and he is a 5 year resident of SL.
  16. Rhonda Huntress wrote: ValorWhit wrote: What kind of pervert do they think I am? The kind that would screw a cat but not a human? :smileyvery-happy: Not a cat. A robot cat. Our kids would have awesome robo nija kitty transformer claws that could cut through concrete, steel and even last year's fruitcake!
  17. Deception? I have only been here a week and I can tell you about deception. I met someone at a club last night and asked them to dance. We chatted for a few minutes, one thing lead to another, but then I found out that they were not a robot cat at all! Don't they have a way to check this stuff out first? I almost did things with them What kind of pervert do they think I am?
  18. Jerilynn Lemon wrote: ValorWhit wrote: /me looks for the popcorn popper. Over here! Was putting in a new batch of Redenbacher. This could be good /me follows the smell of fresh popcorn, the aroma prompting a response like a Pavlovian dog. When he turns the corner, he stops dead in his tracks. "Well. Hello, Ms Lemon. You smell delic ... I mean the popcorn looks stun.. wow, is it hot in here?"
  19. Alwin Alcott wrote: if you look for clothing... go to marketplace, type "slink" in search and than narrow it to apearal/mens .... there's enough to find I have that much down. But finding sharp threads is only a secondary objective. Finding people is the reason I asked about the group. I think I understand the Daddy Dom thing now. The girls that asked me were not necessarily looking for someone to buy them stuff or were into tabboos. More like a play on sexual tensions in a provider/novice role? At lest I know what I am saying no to now.
  20. I have a male slink body. I is there a group out there that chats about where to find stuff for this body? The group related to the store doesn't look like it is intended for me or general chat. And completely unrelated but I am curious sbout something. No way to ask but to come out and say so, what the heck is a daddy dom and what is expected of one?
  21. ClariceRose wrote: Valor, I sent you an IM to your profile in SL. Thank you very much! I'll have to wait until after work to get it. Hurry up 5:00
  22. Thanks for the suggestions but free is not my style. I currently have a slink body, a skin I can use with it, hair and 1 change of clothes and have bought as much money as I can until next week. And since I am here anyway, I want to apologize for all the noobs out there. We must really be a nuisance. I haven't had a problem going to stores but the music scenes I find with event search seem to toss me out more often than not for being underage. It kind of makes me feel nostalgic; I have not been tossed out of a bar for being under aged in a long time
  23. Hi there. I have a ton of questions, to the point where I am just now learning how much I need to learn. I will start with just this for now. Does anyone have any tips for finding things on the Market Place? Searching for hair: 140,000. Cut this to men's, 20,000 (so right there I know where men stand in the virtual world, but OK, whatever) . Now there's facial hair, hairbases, lots of 90's boy-band hair, lost of repurposed women's hair. I can sort by rating but that tends to bring up a ton of old styles which look great on the picture but have a lot of transparent issues when actually worn. I found some hair I like eventually but wow, the time involved is high. I tried adding -keyword in the search but I don't think that is correct. Is it NOT keyword? I should have tried that earlier. Am I missing something most people know already? While I'm asking, where can I find a good male skin? Must work with Slink and not look like it has been wallowing in the mud.
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