I sent it to my room mate. They've been sitting right next to me, both trying to figure this out together. I know that others have sent me items, when I was not online, and I received them right away, when I logged in. I'm sure that I know where to look for it. I feel stupid, because there's nothing in their PM from me. I see it, on my screen. They have nothing, on their end!
We waited several days. They've logged on and off, several times. But still, I don't have it; the recipient doesn't have it. My IM says "User not online - inventory has been saved." What does that mean? Where did it go?! (#VashtaNerada "4022 saved, No survivors")