amamakah

I finally found the forums hoping for help in naviagting this complicated place. It is kind of disconcerting to find this thread where I seem to be a immediately disliked person because I am new and a bit clueless. This place is difficult. I am not finding decent looking clothing or body in the beginners zone. Dealing with boxes is kind of crazy making. Etc, etc. Am I judged for my ignorance? Seems so. Idk if this is a fun place to be at all. Major Noob number 165,794